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User Topic: NC broke after 5 months
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Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, broke NC after 5 months. After a few glasses of wine I emailed him and told him how glad I was that he was out of my life and what a f###ing loser he is. I know I may get a lot of backlash for doing it, but damn it felt good to finally say it


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
SBB
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Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending him this missive makes you feel 'good' for a nanosecond. Then you realise you've told him he still matters.

He doesn't.

We all do it. Until we've had a few mornings after and kicking ourselves. I kept away from booze for almost a year after DD for fear of this - or worse. I didn't know what rage lay underneath the rage on top.

When I did drink I had one of my GFs lock my phone away. I was pleased I wasn't even tempted. I wasn't a drunk dialler - I was a hurt mamma dialler. Both are bad.

The image of him gorging on ego kibbles is enough to turn me off even responding to most of his drivel. He isn't important to me.

He tries to yank my chain every few months - it's sad that he still thinks I'm a source of ego kibbles.

Get back in the wagon now. No more. Don't even read his response. Delete it from your inbox and from your trash. No good can come from it, only damage.

NC = No New Hurts. As I said we all pick at that scab.

Remember the opposite of love isn't hate, it is indifference.

Fake it till you make it. Then one glorious day you realise you're not faking it.

[This message edited by SBB at 9:29 AM, March 11th (Tuesday)]


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5662 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending him this missive makes you feel 'good' for a nanosecond. Then you realise you've told him he still matters.
He doesn't.
Definitely this.

When I would have those urges, I would just picture him sitting there smugly, saying "HA! I'm so great, she still loves me. Mwahahahaha!" And that usually snaps me out of it.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


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