Honest to pete I feel like I'm stupid and slow.
D filed and served 3/1. Its 3/11.
Since then he has:
*ignored me
*mocked me
*tried to get ds to gang up on me (and my oh so wise 11yo just rolled his eyes, laughed and said "shut up").
*threatened to "cost me my job"
*keeps reminding me how much it will suck to not see my son some days for shared custody
*told me he now knows he isn't the baby's daddy for my pregnancy (not true)
*begged for me to talk to him some more
*asked me for $3k to start his business so he doesn't have to go and work 60-70 hours a week "to survive" and never see his son
*started hinting about me getting arrested for doing something stupid to OW (I've done NOTHING to her in 2 years since 1st dday and current issues driving the divorce aren't even ABOUT her)
*is talking about moving wherever I move because he knows I want nothing more than to be away from him
He waffles from being a visitation only dad to shared custody to I suck as a mom and he should have full custody (then realizes the responsibility that entails).
Some of this all goes on in 1 day!
Ex since 8:20am this morning we've gone round about him moving wherever I move, him trying to get the 60hr a week job so I'll stay here and he'll still take care of me just from his own place to he needs 3k$ to start a biz so he can work AND see his son (FYI - I work 50-60 hrs per week and see my son lots) to he doesn't know WHO is the baby daddy but he just isn't 100% sure it is him to "we really really need to talk" and when I say "no we really don't I have nothing left to say" to him sharing news stories about someone that got arrested for violating a pfa (like what? I have no pfa against me or from me against anyone what the F?!?!) to "You better not do anything stupid to ______(XOW, or never-was OW depending on the day)".
I feel shellshocked and stupid.
My friend says I just need to get out of the house if I can't get him out.
I feel like this dude
Thank goodness I told my coworkers. They decided after my stunned look this a.m. that they will screen my calls so I can function during the work day and not deal with this for at least 8 hrs a day.
I've put up with his crazy for years and years but to have it all cycling through the range all in 2 hours is mindboggling.
Has anyone successfully dealt with the crazy onslaught post-D filing and NOT had to move out?