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hitbyatruck posted 3/11/2014 10:09 AM

Not even two months into in-house separation H tells me he has a date last Friday. My mistake for asking. I could tell he had been talking to someone, phone on silent, a lot of texting...

Anyway, I asked if he was still going by himself to the movies, he informs me he is going with his new friend.

ANyway... He was home before the movie even let out. He left her in the movie theater. Told me she wanted more than he did and he didn't feel comfortable staying, so he left.

I felt bad for the girl but YOWZA... Left in the middle of a date.

norabird posted 3/11/2014 10:59 AM

Oh jeez. Not surprising that waywards have no idea how to listen to the voice inside them that knows if it's too soon. But can you stop talking to him about these private things even though you'e in-house? It can't be helpful for you.

GabyBaby posted 3/11/2014 11:33 AM

stop talking to him about these private things even though you'e in-house? It can't be helpful for you.
This.

IWantDoOver posted 3/11/2014 11:37 AM

porn addict for 15 yrs.

Isn't porn addiction an intimacy disorder?

Told me she wanted more than he did and he didn't feel comfortable staying, so he left.

He'll probably white knuckle it through all intimate encounters, until he does the work ... or meets another broken human being.

hitbyatruck posted 3/11/2014 12:58 PM

stop talking to him about these private things even though you'e in-house? It can't be helpful for you.

I think my morbid need to look at a train wreck got the better of me. We shouldn't be talking about that type of thing at all.

demos posted 3/11/2014 13:06 PM

My gut says that night didn't go down that way. But I agree with others that you should just avoid the subject.

hitbyatruck posted 3/11/2014 13:59 PM

Well....let the crazy begin.

Got a private number on my cell phone today trying to get me to say if I was separated or not. Really???

Years ago I got a few phone calls from his work either telling me something or trying to info out of me. Today's phone call triggered some very old feelings. I hate this.

Brandon808 posted 3/11/2014 17:18 PM

Got a private number on my cell phone today trying to get me to say if I was separated or not. Really???
Did this person ask this on a voicemail or did you take the call? I make it a practice to not answer private numbers. If I know you then I have your number. Otherwise leave a message I can quickly delete.

hitbyatruck posted 3/11/2014 17:33 PM

I ignored the first private number then 2 minutes later I got another private which I answered. I shouldn't have. Lesson learned.

Whalers11 posted 3/11/2014 19:48 PM

He was home before the movie even let out. He left her in the movie theater. Told me she wanted more than he did and he didn't feel comfortable staying, so he left.

I am willing to bet that's not what really happened.

hitbyatruck posted 3/11/2014 21:21 PM

I have no reason to believe that isn't what happened but who knows?

I told H all about the private info seeking call. It didn't go well at all.

Getting to Happy posted 3/11/2014 22:00 PM

I told H all about the private info seeking call. It didn't go well at all.

There is all kinds of wrong here.

A gentle 2x4 ~

You are his wife and not his sister. Please don't discuss his dating with him at all. That is so strange and painful...And please don't engage any phone calls from his whores fishing for info from his WIFE!

Please. This sitch with your WH is getting more and more off kilter.

Protect your mental health and your heart.

(((Hitbyatruck)))

gonnabe2016 posted 3/11/2014 22:11 PM

Truck, you have already done this song and dance. Wasn't it exhausting enough the first *go-round*?

Be.Done. Especially based on the fact that it makes NO sense that some random *movie-date-girl* would have YOUR number and would feel comfortable enough to ask you directly about your marital status.

This stinks to high heaven.

Stop asking this douche about his *plans* and what happened. Totally 180 him and get on with YOUR life.

hitbyatruck posted 3/11/2014 23:38 PM

You are all right. i need to stop asking.

the random movie date girl was a FB friend. my cell number was on my page. i removed it tonight.

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