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madnessinmarch posted 3/12/2014 02:09 AM

Triggers. My bf had his fbuddy come to his house the froom for the most part was the guest room which is right across from "our bed" I can barely walk past that room, and to think we had sex there while he was "doing her". There are so many triggers I wish he had fkd her in the basement Triggers are the worse

mesoSTUPID posted 3/12/2014 02:18 AM

Yep, triggering sucks big donkey dicks! However, dealing with triggers gets better over time so hang in there. I wish I could give you a suggestion as to how to deal with the fuck room, but other than for you both to move, I don't know what to say.

mesoSTUPID posted 3/12/2014 02:18 AM

DOUBLE POST! :(

[This message edited by mesoSTUPID at 4:21 AM, March 13th (Thursday)]

RidingHealingRd posted 3/12/2014 02:55 AM

Bedroom, guest room, basement....

The fact that she walked the floors of that house will almost certainly cause you to trigger, that's a given.

My WH screwed her in my car, the couch in the basement, and my bed! She walked the floor of my house, sat her ass in his car and in his office ~ Soooooo:

- I traded in my car for a brand new one
- I got rid of the couch
- I replaced the bed, bedding, and all bedroom furniture
- I sold the house
- I made him trade in his brand new car (only 3mo old) and buy another one
- I made him find a new job, in a new state 1600 miles away.

I am a big advocate of eliminating triggers. Ask him to sell the house.

somanyyears posted 3/12/2014 05:41 AM


..@RidingHealingRd..

..too bad you can't find a way to lop off his dick and order a 'new one'..

smy

NeverAgain2013 posted 3/12/2014 07:35 AM

My WH screwed her in my car, the couch in the basement, and my bed! She walked the floor of my house, sat her ass in his car and in his office ~ Soooooo:

- I traded in my car for a brand new one
- I got rid of the couch
- I replaced the bed, bedding, and all bedroom furniture
- I sold the house
- I made him trade in his brand new car (only 3mo old) and buy another one
- I made him find a new job, in a new state 1600 miles away.


I think I would have traded HIM in, instead. That would have been a lot less trouble.

BPhoenix posted 3/12/2014 08:43 AM

The triggers truly suck. WH had several partners in our van, I have to see their location at the hotel if I want to use the commissary on post, and part of me thinks he probably had them in our bed. Thankfully we got a new bed before dday.

NeverAgain is so right, being rid of them would be a lot easier lol.

RidingHealingRd posted 3/13/2014 00:29 AM

smy...

..too bad you can't find a way to lop off his dick and order a 'new one'..

During my "raging" there were days that I almost did.

confused615 posted 3/13/2014 05:32 AM

Mine was our family van. On dday I told him to get it the fuck gone or I would set it on fire. I was serious.

The van was gone that day.

I admire your style, RidingHealingRd.

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