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918Mama (original poster member #37756) posted at 10:07 PM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
Cuz the bitch done went and posted trash on a cheaters website.
Interestingly, she's done so right around the time frame that I commented on someone else's thread that I had posted on one ages ago.
She's posted on the same site, the lil peach!
Clearly she's found me on here and that's fine. So this thread is directed at you and you alone Amanda...
Take it down. Or I forward everything I've recovered from his iPhone. The pics...the videos...the begging for a baby. I'm sure your husband would love to see all of that.
As would many of your co-workers, I'm sure. And your mom. Can't imagine she knows your dirty little secrets yet! Love to be the one to tell her!!
I have children...one who knows how to search online. Take it down. You have no IDEA of the rage I've bottled away for you! I nearly lost my baby you effing whore. You wanted my life so desperately that the stress of it nearly killed my son.
You have no idea how batshit crazy a mother can get. Trust me...you don't want to find out.
Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be. -- Sonia Ricotti
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 10:11 PM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
Wow,
How the hell did she find you here? And if she put your WH on a cheaters site shouldn't she put herself on there? That's calling the kettle black... They are all a hot mess!
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 10:15 PM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
Your OW sounds just like ours... a real wench!
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
Flourgirl ( member #40937) posted at 10:27 PM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
Can you say bunny boiler? She's stalking you on here? Amanda you are a disgusting please leave this woman alone you have done enough harm. Go do something positive in the world and better yourself.
BS me 39
WH him 40
Dd 7/1/13. TT 7/22/13
SAHM with 4 wonderful kids
918Mama (original poster member #37756) posted at 10:30 PM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
I've suspected for a little while she found me. There's enough personally identifying characteristics in my stories, profile and user name that she could easily identify me. I think initially I did that as an invitation to the universe that I wanted her to find me and see the pain and destruction she caused in my life...not minimizing my H's role AT ALL just calling out her own special place in my hell!
If she came across SI like any of us have through the usual searches, then I'd be an easy target to identify from my screen name alone.
When I posted about finding her pitiful blog post to the universe about how awful her life was, I actually felt a little sorry for her. I posted about it here and...wah-la! Magically removed even though it hadn't been touched for months.
Making the comment recently about the cheaters website was really to bait her and see if my suspicions were correct. I believe they are.
I posted the original post about her 10 months post d day. I was in a WORLD of hurt still and very angry. It was do that, or punch her in the face. I chose the peaceful option.
She posted her update last week...almost two years post d day? Why now? I can only guess it's because she found out what I did and wanted to even the score. Fine.
The problem is, it never came from my H. It came from ME, the BS. The betrayed friend. She isn't posting because she's hurt by him, she's posting cuz she's pissed at me.
Well now it's game on...and I have had a LOT of time to think about what I'd like to do. You want to mess with me whore??
Bring it.
[This message edited by 918Mama at 4:36 PM, March 12th (Wednesday)]
Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be. -- Sonia Ricotti
SI Staff ( Moderator #10) posted at 10:43 PM on Wednesday, March 12th, 2014
918Mama -
Do not bait or call out others. This includes members and non-members. Thank you.
Simple ( member #18814) posted at 12:10 AM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
/shrug still think OW, no matter how many there are are never worth our time. Honestly, you should've sent all those info to her BH anyway, even if he already knows. As a BS, I want to know everything cause it helped me make decisions that affect my life. It's rare that a BS wants to stay in the dark.
Good luck to you.
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 7:58 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
Out her. Immediately. To everyone. Actions, meet consequences.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Shattered-Heart ( member #32165) posted at 8:26 PM on Thursday, March 13th, 2014
Out her. Immediately. To everyone. Actions, meet consequences.
Exactly what Skan said.
Similar crap happening with me. 2 yrs + down the line and they're still the same hot mess? Whatever.
Put it all out on the table, and let the cards fall. She'll be busy with the fallout, and you work on YOU. Breathe, enjoy the kids, and be as happy in your life as you can be, cause that, really, is the best anyway. 
Remember unicorn land was an escape and she's delusional, and may never change. Keep on bettering your life and to hell with everyone else.
[This message edited by Shattered-Heart at 2:28 PM, March 13th (Thursday)]
Me BW Him WH "The trick is to keep breathing." - Garbage
niaveone ( member #40317) posted at 1:26 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
I still say the best thing I ever did was out OW and WS all over FB. It kept them both from living in a little fantasy world they both created and let the small town we both live in know what they did. Not only was WS and OW hearing from ME, but they heard from the whole community. One thing that made OW's marriage crumble was because her own WS (they were in an open marriage, but it was on the *down low*) couldn't handle everyone knowing how gross they both were. lol. Oops. You need to out her so she doesn't live in her own little perfect universe in her little pea brain.
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married: 24 years
2 children
2 DDays
Reconciling
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