I've suspected for a little while she found me. There's enough personally identifying characteristics in my stories, profile and user name that she could easily identify me. I think initially I did that as an invitation to the universe that I wanted her to find me and see the pain and destruction she caused in my life...not minimizing my H's role AT ALL just calling out her own special place in my hell!
If she came across SI like any of us have through the usual searches, then I'd be an easy target to identify from my screen name alone.
When I posted about finding her pitiful blog post to the universe about how awful her life was, I actually felt a little sorry for her. I posted about it here and...wah-la! Magically removed even though it hadn't been touched for months.
Making the comment recently about the cheaters website was really to bait her and see if my suspicions were correct. I believe they are.
I posted the original post about her 10 months post d day. I was in a WORLD of hurt still and very angry. It was do that, or punch her in the face. I chose the peaceful option.
She posted her update last week...almost two years post d day? Why now? I can only guess it's because she found out what I did and wanted to even the score. Fine.
The problem is, it never came from my H. It came from ME, the BS. The betrayed friend. She isn't posting because she's hurt by him, she's posting cuz she's pissed at me.
Well now it's game on...and I have had a LOT of time to think about what I'd like to do. You want to mess with me whore??
[This message edited by 918Mama at 4:36 PM, March 12th (Wednesday)]