I am so sorry Jackson. Just know that it has nothing to do with you. Its something in them that causes the to make such ratchet choices.
Im curios, if you dont mind sharing, how did you discover he saw hookers? I too am in a 1 yr relationship with by all accounts is a wonderful man, but I recently saw he looked at an escort website while out of town. Im having trouble believing it was innocent curiosity vs he actually considered or even did see one.
In your situation the biggest red flag is his lack of remorse/responsibilty, ie trying to blame it on you.