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User Topic: Let me know
TattoodChinaDoll
♀ 34602
Member # 34602
Default  Posted: 8:08 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't go into details on here but I just need some support and reminders that it will all be ok. That your survived this. That there are tens of thousands of you on SI that are going through the same thing, feel the same way, and are living proof that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. You guys are the ones who get it...I wish you were all here in my living room right now.


Me (BW): 32
WH: 34 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


Posts: 1738 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((TCD)))))

It will be OK, it will.

What is happening?


Dont get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.

Posts: 2819 | Registered: Jan 2010
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((TCD))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26505 | Registered: Aug 2011
5454real
♂ 37455
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TCD, we've got your back.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 21(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3306 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TCD)))

Please remember that you ARE strong. You WILL make it through this. It may not seem like it, but there are better days ahead. Sending you hope, hugs, and warmth (good grief it's cold by us).


Posts: 36783 | Registered: Mar 2011
somanyyears
♂ 26970
Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..

..You must have a helluva BIG living room!!!

..stay strong..have faith in a better tomorrow..

smy

[This message edited by somanyyears at 8:21 AM, March 13th (Thursday)]


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4134 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
Flourgirl
♀ 40937
Member # 40937
Default  Posted: 8:23 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We're here we will get through it. I still take it minute by minute one breath at a time.


BS me 39
WH him 40
Dd 7/1/13. TT 7/22/13
SAHM with 4 wonderful kids

Posts: 190 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Kansas City
joannie
♀ 42486
Member # 42486
Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wish i was in your living room right now, could do with a hug and the same reassurance hugs to you


me BS 56yr
Him WS 55yr
Married 34 years 2 sons 4 grandchildren

Posts: 217 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: France
confused615
♀ 30826
Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 9:44 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((((TCD))))))


Im worried that you said you can't go into details..this following your thread about TTMU not wanting you to post/read SI.

Has he taken your safe place from you?


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 8085 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
AML04
♀ 39682
Member # 39682
Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TCD)))


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

Posts: 875 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
stunnedin12
♀ 38141
Member # 38141
Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We (collectively) are stronger than anything the wayward spouse can thrown our way. It will get better - one way or another.

Be safe.


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure

Posts: 519 | Registered: Jan 2013
tushnurse
♀ 21101
Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Got your back sister....((((TCD))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8898 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Neverwudaguessed
♀ 41884
Member # 41884
Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are all here for you. Remember; they don't call it a roller coaster for nothing, which means that yes, there are REALLY low lows, but that also follow with the highs too. It will get better <3


BW: 44 Me
WH:48
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 12 1/2 years ago for 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 13
DD 11

Posts: 806 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New York
ExposedNiblet
♀ 30803
Member # 30803
Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TCD))))

This too shall pass.

Hang in there.


Divorced
Me ($39.95 plus S & H)
DS1(17), DS2(15)

Enjoying this chapter in my life.
Learning that being alone does not mean being lonely.
Discovering that where I've been is not as important as where I'm going.


Posts: 355 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Right Here, Canada
FindMyselfAgain
♀ 36969
Member # 36969
Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((TCD))

"Promise me you'll always remember: you're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." A.A.Milne


DDay: October 7, 2011
R finally started in earnest: April 2014
Current status: If he won't make changes, I must.

Posts: 227 | Registered: Sep 2012
4everfaithful83
♀ 41761
Member # 41761
Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs to you TCD - You WILL be ok. Just take it one day at a time. Don't forget to eat! And get plenty of sleep. You are not alone, you have come to the right place!


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 31
WBF: 27
Together 7 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...


Posts: 565 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Skan
♀ 35812
Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey there, I brought my own chair because I'm betting your living room is getting a bit full. (((hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 5237 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
gypsybird87
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Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TCD)))

Whatever it is, it's no match for you, sister. You are strong, brave, and surrounded by love and support here.

Hang in there.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 1047 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You will be MORE than okay!


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TCD, You have so much going for you. You've got a long, productive, joyful life to live. You're a loving, lovable, capable human being, and you will get through this.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10758 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
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