I think it is figurative. It's in the consequences thread, first post.
I thought there was an article or post about it? So that both people are on the same page.
And YES! I agree that was in the vows of the ceremony. But it seems that my WS didn't really get it. He seems to think that acting as a single person is OK. Spending money without consulting the other is OK. And if you aren't feeling good in the marriage, you can self sooth however you want. In the arms of someone else. And if you are mad when you do that, then all should be forgiven. Ugh
I need a contract or guidelines or something.