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Bf and I hit a huge snag. I dont want to go into detail but I caught something in time before it turned into a huge mess. I didnt yell or scream at him, but let him know how hurt and angry I was. I know it was not me at all but his issue. I personally think it was a cry for help. There are somethings he still needs to work on.the first time in 2 weeks ive talked to him was today. He told me everything. Or so I hope. Hes doing all the things ive asked of him. Hes making the biggest effort he can. His counselor wants me to go to a session tomorrow with him. I agreed. But its not going to be pretty.
Need some prayers.

((eyenight))

Good for you for having strong boundaries and not settling for stuff like this.

Hope everything turns out well.

(((Eyenight)))

The counseling went good. The counselor told him he fucked up big time but its fixable and up to him toake changes and do everything possible and have a plan involved so it doesn't happen again. Hes got a lot of homework and books to read. Its all going to be okay. Its going to be a long road. I have an another counseling session with him next week. We get to work on communication this week.

I'm so glad he's open to this! Willingness to get/stay healthy is a big green flag for me.