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User Topic: roller coaster
eyenight
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bf and I hit a huge snag. I dont want to go into detail but I caught something in time before it turned into a huge mess. I didnt yell or scream at him, but let him know how hurt and angry I was. I know it was not me at all but his issue. I personally think it was a cry for help. There are somethings he still needs to work on.the first time in 2 weeks ive talked to him was today. He told me everything. Or so I hope. Hes doing all the things ive asked of him. Hes making the biggest effort he can. His counselor wants me to go to a session tomorrow with him. I agreed. But its not going to be pretty.
Need some prayers.

Posts: 133 | Registered: Jun 2013
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((eyenight))

Good for you for having strong boundaries and not settling for stuff like this.

Hope everything turns out well.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Eyenight)))

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eyenight
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The counseling went good. The counselor told him he fucked up big time but its fixable and up to him toake changes and do everything possible and have a plan involved so it doesn't happen again. Hes got a lot of homework and books to read. Its all going to be okay. Its going to be a long road. I have an another counseling session with him next week. We get to work on communication this week.

Posts: 133 | Registered: Jun 2013
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 4:34 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad he's open to this! Willingness to get/stay healthy is a big green flag for me.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13858 | Registered: Jul 2011
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