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eyenight posted 3/13/2014 20:11 PM

Bf and I hit a huge snag. I dont want to go into detail but I caught something in time before it turned into a huge mess. I didnt yell or scream at him, but let him know how hurt and angry I was. I know it was not me at all but his issue. I personally think it was a cry for help. There are somethings he still needs to work on.the first time in 2 weeks ive talked to him was today. He told me everything. Or so I hope. Hes doing all the things ive asked of him. Hes making the biggest effort he can. His counselor wants me to go to a session tomorrow with him. I agreed. But its not going to be pretty.
Need some prayers.

Amazonia posted 3/13/2014 22:12 PM

((eyenight))

Good for you for having strong boundaries and not settling for stuff like this.

Hope everything turns out well.

jo2love posted 3/15/2014 09:46 AM

(((Eyenight)))

eyenight posted 3/16/2014 22:21 PM

The counseling went good. The counselor told him he fucked up big time but its fixable and up to him toake changes and do everything possible and have a plan involved so it doesn't happen again. Hes got a lot of homework and books to read. Its all going to be okay. Its going to be a long road. I have an another counseling session with him next week. We get to work on communication this week.

Amazonia posted 3/17/2014 04:34 AM

I'm so glad he's open to this! Willingness to get/stay healthy is a big green flag for me.