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User Topic: Back to school
Iamhappytoday
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Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Edited post to paraphrase that I'm just thankful after separating and plunging towards a divorce I never saw coming that school, despite its insanity, is going well.

[This message edited by Iamhappytoday at 12:26 AM, March 14th (Friday)]


BW 39
WH 34
2DD's 15 months at start
Together 10 years, M 9
OW 22 CW, 2kids by 2 men & youngest less than 1 when affair started.
Dday 1 8/16/12 "just texting"
TT, gaslighting, denial; was always PA; he left me for her.

Posts: 141 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Free!!!
Helen of Troy
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Happy  Posted: 2:22 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Education is one thing no one can take away from you.


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risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went back to school while in the middle of the divorce which included a trial. It was a crazy move but gave me something to look forward to.
I am getting my MA in Conflict Resolution and Mediation.

Good for you! School somehow can keep you sane.


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

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Leia
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My STBXWW and I paid off my student loans several years ago. He can't get my college degree in the divorce!!!


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas
Iamhappytoday
♀ 39051
Member # 39051
Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for your replies! I didn't even think it was possible to go back, then in December after 8 months of fruitless job hunting I asked around for advice and called the academic counselor and it went really fast from there.
I honestly was in a huge slump with no job and no prospects, it was so hard to take care of the kids. As of mid-terms I have at least a 3.5, I HAVE to get out of bed, and I receive not only wonderful encouragement, but even during sad moments the surroundings of a beautiful campus and new purpose really lift my spirits.

I really would not have gotten this far without even my lurking moments on SI.

HUGS!!!!


BW 39
WH 34
2DD's 15 months at start
Together 10 years, M 9
OW 22 CW, 2kids by 2 men & youngest less than 1 when affair started.
Dday 1 8/16/12 "just texting"
TT, gaslighting, denial; was always PA; he left me for her.

Posts: 141 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Free!!!
traicionada
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Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went back to college 90 days after Dday. I won't lie and tell you it was easy but I know it gave me something to focus on while all the madness went down. Good luck on your NB!


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

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