Note: He has not told me of any of this. This is just everything that I have found on my own. He has never confessed his wrongs to me.
I keep asking myself how much am I supposed to take?
Your character is what you do when you think no one is watching.
What are you waiting for?
He has shown you repeatedly who he is.
Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11
And if you want to have to go to your doctor on a yearly basis to have a full STD/HIV panel drawn because he will, eventually, have sex with someone, if he hasn't already, and your health will then be at risk. (((hugs))) I'm so sorry.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
"Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth." -Unknown Wise Person
He again apologized and said things just went too far.
Talking and texting with another woman is too far on its own. The pics are the next phase of EA. EA are the worse. Educate him and yourself about those. Then get the book, "Not Just Friends."
Sorry, he has been cheating the whole time of your marriage. He has no boundaries or cares. Especially if you have put up with pics.
First EA texting, then pics, now videos, EA sex, ...
Where is your boundary? Is it only cheating if it is physical sex in your opinion? If you don't set boundaries and the consequences...then he will continue to see what he can get away with.
My advice would be to gather as much information as you can. I installed a key logger on his lap top. And when/if you decide to confront don't show him all your card. Don't tell him if you install the key logger keep it as a tool to see if you can trust him if you decide to R.
Make sure you take care of yourself, eat,sleep, stay hydrated.
As for how much your supposed to take, if he isn't willing to stop then that's something you need to decide if you can live with. Personally if I found my H still doing stuff I would leave. I refuse to compete with a bunch of bitches that have nothing better to do. Cheating is cheating whether its physical, emotional, or cyber.
Also look under I can relate there's a cyber/online affair thread that many have posted on.
He doesn't want to stop, perhaps he can't stop. He just wants you to stop catching him. What is wrong with this picture?
How much more do you WANT to take?
"Global editing disclaimer - I edit almost everything I post, and I am not going to post why every time."...re: Bionical girl