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User Topic: ex abuse your kids?
Jill2011
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Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Anyone now moving on and dealing with ex abusing your kids?


Dday - July 21, 2011
BS - 32
WS - 36
Daugher 4
Married 9 years, together 11.
Divorcing - yahoo!

Posts: 210 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Canada
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 1:47 AM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You might have more luck in general or s/d forum than the off topic one.

I hope you and your children are ok.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1408 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Emotional abuse -yes.

Physical or sexual -no


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5744 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
CheshCat
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep.

Miserable, hellish, awfulness.

And there is NOTHING I can do about it.

He's wealthy, white, and educated.

The courts will revoke custody for 2 minutes (literally until he completes a weekend seminar IF that), and it's back to 50/50 custody.

And I'm out 10k.

Which is kind of the least of my concerns. (My ELEMENTARY aged son hung himself at his dads, serious attempt/ his blessed blessed stepmother found him and cut him down and got him medical treatment in time so he lived).

It's only a matter of time before he kills my children.
Either by snapping their necks (he likes to pick up people by their necks and throw them into walls), or by driving them to suicide.

But in trying to prolong that time, I'm increasingly in debt, and stand to lose custody MYSELF if I can't keep up on my bills.

Yeah.

Crazy world.

So. Much. Fun.

When the abusive parent can bankrupt the non-abusive parent & get full custody.

"Hard" has a completely new definition in my world.


"Another conversation killed awkwardly! Yes! Point to my side." - Chesh's Brother

Moi : BS MH 30mumble
Him : WS Abuse Adultery Addict Six-figure Sociopath = Aaass
... I picked a winner!
DDay - 2006 ad naseam
Divorced! 2013


Posts: 571 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: West Coast US
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Jill2011 & DD)))))
(((((Kajem & kids)))))
(((((CheshCat & kids)))))

[This message edited by SI Staff at 1:30 PM, March 16th (Sunday)]


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