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HurtsButImOK posted 3/16/2014 01:49 AM

Was chatting to xsil the other night. We generally don't discuss x but I mentioned that I had seen him walking along the road I was driving down earlier this week. She gave me props for not hitting him .

She then mentioned that xbil was angry at x because he didn't bother to attend other xbil's bucks weekend (no strippers or anything unsavory just a weekend at their parents holiday house that all the brothers and some friends were at). I just find it so sad that his family, which used to be important to him, no longer seems to matter to him.

I really don't know the man child I spent the past 16 years with. I find that sad. Albeit relieved that its not my problem anymore.

SBB posted 3/16/2014 02:43 AM

I really don't know the man child I spent the past 16 years with. I find that sad. Albeit relieved that its not my problem anymore.

Astonishing, isn't it? I would have believed it if someone said he would cheat but never the other stuff. I would have bet my right arm that he wouldn't fuck me over completely and fuck his own kids up and make such a complete and utter fool of himself in the process.

I would not have a right arm if anyone had taken me up on that bet.

This is who he is - I get it. I just can't fathom how he hid it for a decade. Let alone why.

norabird posted 3/16/2014 14:48 PM

I love your attitude on this. It IS sad for him--and so not your problem too! Freeing.

PurpleRose posted 3/16/2014 16:15 PM

Yes, it is sad.

Sad what they allow themselves to do.

Sad that they dont take responsibilty for screwing over their "family".

Sad that their lives are trashed as a result of their own choices.

Good for you-- it is not your problem! Sooo true!

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