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Veronique12's post on a luuurve letter she found, where the OW called the WS a "sex god" made me think about how my SAWH described himself on hook-up site ads: "hands to die for", "a wicked tongue" and "just think of me as the Duracell bunny lolol". Lucky me, it's all true, but reading it there made me sick, literally.

Those of you whose WS' used those sites - how did they describe themselves and how true to life were those descriptions?

He described himself like this.

"Tall, dark, handsome, single guy looking for some NSA fun, mff threesomes cool, seriously into oral, bondage, role play, for pic exchange email me at.....blahblah"

Tall, check.
Dark, hmm. Mousy, I guess. Unless he's talking about his soul. Then yes, as dark as can be.
Handsome, meh.
Single, nope!
NSA fun, huh? It's all fun and games until your BS finds out!!
Mff threesomes cool- yeah. In your dreams. Life isn't porn. These things don't just fall into your lap.
Seriously into oral, check
Bondage, check- creepily so.
Role play, yeah. I remember. You played the entitled, lazy cheating asshole and I played the devoted mother and housewife. Good times.
For pic exchange, check. That was definitely true, I saw them.

Lol! I forgot that bit - always put himself as "divorced". That's a very likely possibility...

Oh and the profile pics - lookalikes but never of him.

Fantasy land

Mine referred to himself as "sextoy" followed by the year of his birth.
He checked the box "not so happily married" and was looking for secret fun and adventurous sex.
We had been married for 5 months at the time.
I found the account years later.
So sad......
Would have happily walked away from him then had I known he was unhappy.
I was busy financially supporting the family and pregnant with our first child.

Just read your story (((luvedmypbear))). Wow

Thank you Sparkle
You are very kind
Hugs to you too