I cannot believe this is a part of my life.
You have to ask yourself "Why do I let him have so much control?
Seriously - WHY?
Call his bluff!
You are DIVORCED!!
As long as you are a good mother and look out for the best interests of your kids - he cannot get full custody.
You have to be more assertive.
What happens when he starts trying to turn your kids against you?
You said in your very first post in this thread:
I've called his bluff before and he's backed down
Continue to take that stand.
You must STOP being so afraid of him. Stand up for yourself and those children.
You will continue to be bullied as long as YOU allow it.
Can Not Believe
Me: BW - 62 FWH - 62 years old
Married: 41+ years 2 sons (34 & 30)
Possible OC: 32 years old/29 at the time
DD: Friday - August 13, 2010
OC refused paternity test
No Contact since June/2011