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User Topic: Nesting
♀ 41967
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am about 3 weeks into going back/forth taking turns with my spouse, living in the house with the kids. It is not easy, but I could no longer live in the same house as my WH. I am curious to know how long others have done this and my kids keep asking how long will this last...any suggestions or advise to make this easier?

Posts: 41 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Midwest
♀ 38865
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Default  Posted: 3:40 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for annie

Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

Posts: 759 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
♀ 39551
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Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've seen this discussed on SI once but can't remember where.

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♀ 14759
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Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have you started divorce proceedings? If yes, you should have a good idea of your financial situation. Your lawyer should have been able to give you a ball park figure in what to expect in the way of spousal and child support.

Depending on how long it takes to get a divorce in your state, I would be looking for a new home if you don't think you will be keeping the house. Making plans helps in the "moving forward" process.

Married 26 years
DDay #1 2/2002
DDay #2 6/2012
Gave him his second chance and he blew it.
Divorce final: 9/9/2014

It's hard to see the road ahead if you're always looking in the rear view mirror.

Posts: 714 | Registered: May 2007 | From: California
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