ME Doing Better
In my case, H would not give me a timeline. So, I gave him one based on the notes in my journals. H was saddened by what he saw because as he put it "I know what I did".
I hope you get the answers that you seek.
WH Trying As Best He Can
Married 23 years
Status: Working towards friendship
D Day #1 - 2007 My gut told me
D Day #2 - 2010 His D told me
D Day #3 - 1/11/2013 OW Confirmed
LTA 7 years
Both feet pointed forward; positive