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 tushnurse (original poster member #21101) posted at 3:00 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

so for those that have been paying attention, my H lost his job Mid February due to the company failing, and changing how they do things.

He kinda felt it coming and had an interview the same day he was let go.

He had a second interview with this company, which he likes very much, and knows most of the guys because he has worked in the industry for more than 20 years. IT went really well.

Friday he got an email, basically indicating the job he will have, and that they want him working by April 1st, but the company HAD to post the position with in and go through the process of interviewing the other 2 internal candidates.

So it sounds like thing are going to work out for us/him, but as we all know anything can happen, and I would so very much appreciate your MoJo, and prayers, positive thoughts, and well wishes.

SI is magical.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 3:18 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Woo Hoo!

Great news but will continue sending it all your way!

AJ's MOM

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 3:23 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Awesome!! Sending tons of mojo your way.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:33 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Sending super mojo

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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 5:37 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

oh boy! that's good news but boy do I understand the nerves. Good luck to your H!

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:10 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Won't stop the mojo until after the posting process is done.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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MissMouseMo ( member #38562) posted at 9:10 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Great news but...

...why the #$%&! do they even interview outside candidates and then tell them they *probably* have it BUT blah blah blah??

"I edit, therefore I am." -BionicGal

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knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 9:46 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Prayers going up for him to get the job and start soon!

fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 10:11 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Mojo Tush! A lot of times that's just an HR move.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 11:25 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Sounds very promising tushnurse. I think they don't want to lose him and likely broke protocol to make sure they didn't while they went through the internals. I think it sounds good but I am sending you more mojo because I know you won't feel settled until that offer letter is signed. Not long now!

Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.

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Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 11:35 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Fingers, toes and legs crossed!! That's how strong my mojo is, I'm willing to give up sex for you!

BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 11:37 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Mojo!

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:51 AM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014

Very encouraging, tushnurse. Continued mojo and positive thoughts heading your way

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 3:24 AM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014

SI is magical. mojo and magic all the way!

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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mixedemotions ( member #35810) posted at 6:19 AM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014

Mojo!

Looking forward to the "he got the job!" post soon!

Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie

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 tushnurse (original poster member #21101) posted at 2:02 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014

You guys are amazing. Thanks so much.

He did find out yesterday that another company, a competitor has another similar position available, and he had actually worked for this national, successful, company before, and left on great terms for a job in a different industry.

So he is calling the important people there today as well. (He even gets a company car with that job).

So we wait, but soon, very soon, I hope we have the news we need.

Thanks again all you wonderful SI Peeps.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 2:04 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014

It sounds like he has some fantastic options. I'm pulling for you both. I hope the perfect fit comes along soon

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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InnerLight ( member #19946) posted at 6:25 AM on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014

Sending more mojo!

BS, 64 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 years together
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!

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Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 1:29 PM on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014

Mojo x100,000!!!!

Keep us posted!!

2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant

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