Me - 43
I'd tell him to kiss my ass. This is the "new life" he wanted, so leave him to it!
Besides, without an enforceable document from the court that grants you that additional weekend, there is NO incentive for him to hold to his side of the bargain once you help him get the new mortgage.
Add to that, you'd still be on a loan with your STBXH when you want to be separating your finances at this point.
No, no, NO!
[This message edited by GabyBaby at 12:22 PM, March 17th (Monday)]
DD(22), DS(19, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (suicide prior to finalized divorce)
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.