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User Topic: Once a cheater
♂ 41559
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Once she has been busted, should I expect her to cheat again?

Posts: 11 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Dallas Texas
♀ 42092
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Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IF she doesn't do the work and show remorse, very possibly yes.

But it so depends on the circumstances. If she does have real remorse and dig deep to fix the issues that led her here, you are about as safe as most--and of course no couple is ever 100% safe.

Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
♂ 41922
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Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yep Nora is right. It depends ..on her essential character and can she,does she want to learn? One big mistake/transgression is not the whole story. People can and do -she could end up the most faithful friend you'll ever have IF she loves you and doesn't want to hurt you again.The ball is in her court,morally speaking.Nobody can give you a guarantee one way or the other. Only you can watch ,observe,follow your gut and use your mind. The key:her remorse must be deep and real.Otherwise,why wouldn't she?

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