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Topic: Reconciliation is like this analogy!

bitterbetrayal
♀ 26326
Member # 26326

Posted: 7:13 AM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014

I'm only 5ft. I love having my hair washed at the hairdresser and the short massage they give. BUT my neck is really uncomfortable in the chair. I'm constantly trying to shift it to a better position. Reconciliation feels like this. I'm happy and love my WH. I love our life now but I'm in constant discomfort over the affair.

ME.BS 58
Him.WS 57 and a priest!
D-DAY 12/07/09
D-DAY-2 14/08/09
MARRIED 25 YEARS ON 25/08/09
BEEN TOGETHER 28 YEARS
TWO CHILDREN 20 and 22.

Posts: 163 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK

rachelc
♀ 30314
Member # 30314

Posted: 7:26 AM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014

exactly how I feel. I love him and we have a good life but IT is always there.

his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Most things will be okay eventually, but not everything will be. Acceptance is a small, quiet room.”

Posts: 6148 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest

steadfast1973
♀ 24719
Member # 24719

Posted: 8:32 AM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014

yep.

Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2286 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest

somanyyears
♂ 26970
Member # 26970

Posted: 8:36 AM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014

..yup... i've got a 'kink' in my brain, and an ache in my heart..

..that a massage ain't going to fix.

smy

trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer !!

Posts: 4157 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs

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