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How to help your spouse heal from your affair...I read it first before telling him to see if I liked it first and I really did I can't wait for him to read it!! This book gets it!...it helped me gain perspective as to what I'm going through but is intended for WS. A month after d day HE was the one shoving a book in my face he was desperate then to reconcile and even set up the apt with the counselor when I was out of the house and staying with fam...the book he begged me to read (I initially told him no that I was uninterested and to stop pestering me so early)was a book the MC told him to read called After the Affair he said he gained insight ...I eventually gave in and read it...it was long and hurtful to read so soon after just learning about his A but it was helpful...we will see if he reads it like he says...it's bad enough I shoved it in his face but I'm testing him to see if he will follow through to meet my need...still waiting for him to go to IC...if I stayed away longer maybe he might have who knows