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User Topic: I got my divorce papers yesterday
♂ 39885
Member # 39885
Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Got them via email. I've looked them over. Everything seems to be in order. I will give her the honor of divorcing me, the joy of the paperwork, the thrill of showing up for court. Fuck it. It was her bright idea anyhow.

My friend came across town and took me out for a beer. She is D for a couple years now. Couple of calls and texts from friends. The support, as always, has been humbling.

I understand the celebratory mood of some here when the D becomes final. It won't be that way here. It's just a piece of paper to me. The real part of the M died months ago.

BTW, I'm moving out of this dump (hotel) in 10 days. I'll couch surf for a few weeks then I'm going home at the end of May. I turned in my notice at work this week.

Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 798 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Wishing you peace and happiness in your new beginning.

Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

Posts: 7972 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
- The Doctor

Posts: 32683 | Registered: Aug 2011
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Nothing ever goes away until is has taught us everything we need to know. - Pema Chodron

Posts: 24949 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


It is awful.

Use this experience to begin the wonderful new life of sunsetslost. You get to determine what happens to you.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 8495 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck, sunsets on starting your NB.

When my D papers came, I could not celebrate. I drank a bottle of wine that night but not because I was happy. It's just something we have to move through but I hope that in retrospect you will associate happier feelings with the event. For me at this point, I feel tremendous relief.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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