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User Topic: Finally in true R?
EB1541
♀ 42143
Member # 42143
Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think my husband and I might finally be in true R. I realized the whole time before this it was false R. He is trying and shows it regularly.

So last night he was on Facebook, and everytime I see him one there I can't help but worry he is messaging girls or they are messaging him. Usually when I ask to see his phone he gets very defensive and mad. But this time he said I can tell you don't trust me, and I just want you to know I am never going to betray you again. So he gave me his phone and let me see everything. He was very sincere in what he said. I know that this is just the first step, but it's nice to be actually moving.forward. I had my first IC last week. I was so confused and was sure we would no longer have a future but this give me hope.

I think I finally WANT to try to rebuild trust again. I am done being mad,and letting it consume me.

I've realized I still love this man. Yes, he hurt me but I am now willing to forgive, with caution of course.

[This message edited by EB1541 at 12:55 PM, March 20th (Thursday)]


D-day Jan. 2, 2014
Just married Nov. 3, 2013
My age: 23 his age:27
One wonderful son together

Posts: 90 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
EB1541
♀ 42143
Member # 42143
Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just read another post and I think Validation is what we were missing.


D-day Jan. 2, 2014
Just married Nov. 3, 2013
My age: 23 his age:27
One wonderful son together

Posts: 90 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
Breezy150
♀ 42421
Member # 42421
Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sounds like a really good sign.


I am so disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually start on fire.

BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo


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swank
♀ 42835
Member # 42835
Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sounds wonderful. I hope I'll be where you are soon.

Posts: 182 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: United States
deena04
♀ 41741
Member # 41741
Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is wonderful! Best wishes!!


Me FBS around 40
Him FWS early 40s (lovemywife4ever)
He cheated before M, forgot to tell me
"Free at last, free at last, thank God Almighty we are free at last" - MLK Jr

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