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EB1541 (original poster member #42143) posted at 6:54 PM on Thursday, March 20th, 2014
I think my husband and I might finally be in true R. I realized the whole time before this it was false R. He is trying and shows it regularly.
So last night he was on Facebook, and everytime I see him one there I can't help but worry he is messaging girls or they are messaging him. Usually when I ask to see his phone he gets very defensive and mad. But this time he said I can tell you don't trust me, and I just want you to know I am never going to betray you again. So he gave me his phone and let me see everything. He was very sincere in what he said. I know that this is just the first step, but it's nice to be actually moving.forward. I had my first IC last week. I was so confused and was sure we would no longer have a future but this give me hope.
I think I finally WANT to try to rebuild trust again. I am done being mad,and letting it consume me.
I've realized I still love this man. Yes, he hurt me but I am now willing to forgive, with caution of course.
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D-day Jan. 2, 2014
Just married Nov. 3, 2013
My age: 23 his age:27
One wonderful son together
EB1541 (original poster member #42143) posted at 7:00 PM on Thursday, March 20th, 2014
I just read another post and I think Validation is what we were missing.
D-day Jan. 2, 2014
Just married Nov. 3, 2013
My age: 23 his age:27
One wonderful son together
Breezy150 ( member #42421) posted at 7:02 PM on Thursday, March 20th, 2014
That sounds like a really good sign. 
I am so disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually start on fire.
BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo
swank ( member #42835) posted at 7:04 PM on Thursday, March 20th, 2014
That sounds wonderful. I hope I'll be where you are soon.
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 8:32 PM on Thursday, March 20th, 2014
That is wonderful! Best wishes!!
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
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