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Divorce/Separation :
Ugh....Angry!

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 freeatlast72 (original poster member #42758) posted at 12:45 AM on Friday, March 21st, 2014

WH and OW were at Tball tonight---WH is the coach. DD6 and OW DD5 are on the same tball team....OW has not remorse and no morals and is an alcoholic.

Told WH that I know he still sees her at her house during the week and leaves her kids (5 and 3) unsupervised to go pick him up 5 minutes away and drive him back to his car in the evening. OW and I still live across the street from each other until her house sells.

I was so mad, I told him that I could still throw out the Alienation of Affection card if he threatens me with my brother again....we live in North Carolina so that is one of the states that I can sue OW....have plenty of witnesses.

He is the one who cheated....take some responsibility dude!! He is angry at me because I retained an attorney...ummm what was I supposed to do-- you make $200K versus my $20K per year. Am I really THAT dumb! You should not have cheated!!

Sorry about this angry vent, but need to get it out!!!

BS:42(me)
Kids: DD7
DDay: 12/31/2013
Married 15 years
DIVORCED!!!

You can't rationalize irrational behavior.

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 1:23 AM on Friday, March 21st, 2014

Angry is good, actually. It's a healthy response to betrayal and gives us the energy to make necessary changes.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 4:48 AM on Friday, March 21st, 2014

Not only can you sue OW for Alienation of Affection, you can report her to DCFS for leaving her young children unattended. 5 and 3 are way too young to be left alone together!

DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

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Caretaker1 ( member #42777) posted at 6:37 AM on Friday, March 21st, 2014

OMG if I lived in a state that had that I'd be all over it!!!! What are you waiting for AND he makes that much???? Please get this lawyer moving. The worst part is seeing the person they are with and still not divorced. This is high school to me. Get on this and get your money. Move if you can, and somehow reduce your contact with this person who once committed to you. I just don't get what the exes are thinking.

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StrongerOne ( member #36915) posted at 1:14 PM on Friday, March 21st, 2014

You can also get her for criminal conversation. Harder to prove, but wouldn't that just be the cherry on top? Alienation of affection and criminal conversation suits are successfully prosecuted in North Carolina; alienation suits are easier to prove. (I had reason to look into this. ) The threat of such suits can also be useful to you in your divorce negotiations with Mr T Balls.

DDay Feb 2011.
In R.

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 freeatlast72 (original poster member #42758) posted at 1:46 PM on Friday, March 21st, 2014

WH squirms every time I mention Alienation of Affection because in the past he thought I had plans of suing her.....well now I throw it in his face and plan to follow through if he gets nasty!

Two can play at this game....

I keep hearing about indifference on here and CAN NOT WAIT until the day that happens!!! Right now going through a divorce everything is so fresh and I see OW everywhere...too many triggers!

BS:42(me)
Kids: DD7
DDay: 12/31/2013
Married 15 years
DIVORCED!!!

You can't rationalize irrational behavior.

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