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I have checked out some of the links in The Healing Library. I am reading Relationship Rescue (which I have found to be tremendously helpful). We have a stack of relationship books (How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair, The Five Love Languages, Love Busters, etc.). However, I am looking for more. Specifically, I am looking for podcasts about surviving infidelity. I've found a couple of fairly good ones which deal with marriage, but I listen to them and just think "Wow, if only I had heard/ listened to this message a few years ago, how different things might have been" or "That's great, but I don't think that covers/ addresses the sh!t-storm I'm trying to clean up after."
What have you found outside our SI community, IC/ MC, and the oft-recommended books which have helped you help yourself, your spouse, your reconciliation, and/ or your relationship?
"Power, Lincoln, real power comes not from hate, but from truth."
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Had him first. Have him last. Just wish I could have had him ONLY.
I've been listening to One Extraordinary Marriage. The couple have drawn up divorce papers twice and he was addicted to porn.
Also, I just discovered Undone, Redone. This couple actually did divorce and they remarried after 6 years.
Although neither is focused on helping a post-Affair couple, they both have advice for fostering healthy relationships.
dearpeggy.com has a lot of good free resources and no forums.