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Lola2kids (original poster member #32789) posted at 5:04 PM on Friday, March 21st, 2014
I found out a lot of information from X's Facebook page.
I got a big payment out of him for extra curriculars after I saw a post that he had been in NYC for the weekend after telling me he was short on cash.
I was debating whether or not to block him and found it strange that he apparently had not posted anything since Oct. of last year (this was shortly after the NYC post.)
I found out that you can block selected certain friends from seeing all of your posts.
I was trying to figure out how he did it and clicked block for him instead.
It told me that they automatically un-friended him.
Do you get a notice when someone un-friends you?
I'm not upset.
I wasn't getting any more information from that avenue any more.
And frankly, I don't want it to look like he cheated on me, got engaged to the cow and still remains "friends" with me.
No way. 
[This message edited by Lola2kids at 11:05 AM, March 21st (Friday)]
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 5:28 PM on Friday, March 21st, 2014
No, there is no notification that you unfriended him. He will find out when he tries to visit your page and can't open it. You won't come up in each others' search results anymore, and if you have mutual friends, you won't see each others' comments on their stuff, etc. - assuming you let him blocked, that is.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 5:35 PM on Friday, March 21st, 2014
If you are looking for how to select which friends can see a post on your wall then right to the left of the post button (Talking the web version and not the mobile app. Those with updated mobile aps should see a "To:" at the top when composing a status.) where you can select who can see that status from the whole world down to just you.
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 5:53 PM on Friday, March 21st, 2014
I agree with the above, but I found something kinda interesting..
Not sure on this, but say my friend has 10 Facebook friends, one of which being my ex. Even though I blocked my ex, Facebook would still show me that person had 10 friends, but I could only see 9 profile pics on their "friend list" since it wouldn't show me my ex's pic..
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 2:00 AM on Saturday, March 22nd, 2014
The best part is that when you block someone, facebook says something like, "We're very sorry this happened to you."
That's the only apology I'll get out of this whole experience, so I savoured it. Well, my brother also apologized for introducing us - as he should!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
Lola2kids (original poster member #32789) posted at 2:31 AM on Tuesday, March 25th, 2014
Yes, I got the "I'm sorry" notice. I remember you posting about that, Pass.
I'm glad he doesn't get a notice that I un friended him. I doubt he will ever notice.
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
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