He is court ordered to maintain health insurance for myself and our daughters. Last week he begins this
bully campaign to take his name off the policy and make me the subscriber. This will save him a fairly substantial amount each month. Yes, but then, legally I am responsible. When I bring up this up:
But don't worry Rising I will still pay the bill each month.
Oh No! This is not flying with me. When I ask what guarantee I have he actually says (Drum Roll)
You don't trust me to take care of my family?
Please exass do not use big words that you do not understand. Put the $$ into an escrow account or notarize a document that you will pay or take care of my court costs and any medical costs if you let the policy lapse. He is outraged and indignant.
He threatens to cancel the policy at the end of the month because he has fulfilled his responsibility to provide insurance but I am refusing it.
Call my lawyer who is outraged at the ex's tactics. Tells me he will contact ex's lawyer and in addition will not charge me (Really that is amazing).
Ex calls the next day agreeing to my contingencies. He spoke to his Therapist who told him :
Why would she trust you?
Made me laugh! Dumbass, even your your therapist knows who/what you are.
[This message edited by risingfromashes at 6:10 PM, March 21st (Friday)]