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sick_and_sad posted 3/23/2014 00:36 AM

I just ended a relationship with someone I'd been seeing for a year and a half. I should be thinking about her, either mad or sad or something. But mostly, I've been thinking about the ex, the cheater.

I guess each failed try at something with someone knew sends me back to this place of hopelessness. I wonder if I will ever again feel love like that. Or did she kill it, when she betrayed me? Will I ever be truly over it?

It's been five years. I'm sick of it, and sick of myself for still going there.

inconnu posted 3/23/2014 17:16 PM

Sorry you're in such a low spot right now.


It's been five years. I'm sick of it, and sick of myself for still going there.

What have you done to change things? Do you go, or have you been, to IC? Spent time figuring out you and what you want in life outside of a relationship?

Time passing helps us all heal some, but it's what we do for ourselves during that time that helps the most.

norabird posted 3/23/2014 22:23 PM

(((((Sick_and_sad)))))

I can't answer your post's question. But I hope you will love yourself as much as you can right now.

Hang in there.

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