Hey Virginia Girl,
My WH went after his HS girlfriend too, and thought he was in love with her for an entire year during our M. Lovely, huh? I admire you, at least you made a decision, sure there are times when you feel vulnerable, use him, but then push it back to where it belongs (not in your life.)
I decided last night to get a D. It's NOT working, I can't get over what he did, I tried I really did. It breaks my heart, but I can't live like this anymore. Good luck my dear.
BS 55 -- Me!
LTA EA/PA 1-1/2 years.
D-Day 8-12, 2nd D-Day 9-13, 3rd D-Day 10-13 (stopped counting tt still coming in)
Married 17 yrs, together 20.
MC & IC has been a JOKE.
Status: We're going to try IC one more time.