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User Topic: Washington mudslide...brother and sil among the missing
Phoenix1
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Member # 38928
Sad  Posted: 12:26 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please send prayers, mojo, positive thoughts, and whatever else you can spare. Their house was in the direct path and it is simply gone. Everything buried in 15+ ft of mud, water and debris.

I lost my other brother to a freak accident years ago. Don't want to go thru this again... He's my last sibling


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1314 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
persevere
♀ 31468
Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for your family Phoenix.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4715 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
woundedby2
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Member # 18522
Default  Posted: 12:43 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))

Sending along prayers also.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7866 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
cinnamongurl
♀ 37879
Member # 37879
Default  Posted: 12:46 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How frightening! Sending you and your family mojo and positivity Phoenix!


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 18 yrs. Many ddays, last one late 8/12 "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos



Posts: 514 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
sillyme08
♀ 29755
Member # 29755
Default  Posted: 1:03 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sending prayers. Many prayers for your brother and SIL. Also, prayers for the other missing families. They are still saying search and rescue. There is still hope. We must pray and hope.


Me - BS 40
Him - WS 39
MOW - 42
2 year LTA.
2 families destroyed.

Posts: 4 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: no where
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 2:29 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no! I'm praying for a miracle, an air pocket, a lucky moment.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10153 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
timeforchange
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Member # 27454
Default  Posted: 2:40 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for a miracle ..
Hugs to you all


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
HurtsButImOK
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Member # 38865
Default  Posted: 4:16 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Positive thoughts and prayers for bro and SIL. Hoping for a positive outcome.

((((Phoenix1 and family))))


Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou


Posts: 756 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
refuz2bavictim
♀ 27176
Member # 27176
Default  Posted: 4:47 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((phoenix and family))


BS:ME DDay: 7/18/09 Last of TT 7/11/10
MOW's EA/PA all were my "friends" but one


Posts: 2372 | Registered: Jan 2010
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 5:24 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix and family)))


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38956 | Registered: Sep 2007
yearsofpain25
♂ 42012
Member # 42012
Default  Posted: 6:22 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Positive thoughts and prayers for your family and you.

(((Phoenix and Family)))


"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

Posts: 2483 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Kelany
♀ 34755
Member # 34755
Default  Posted: 6:30 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my! Thoughts going your way.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
Bluebird26
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Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 6:42 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you. Hope they are ok.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1408 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
devasted30
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Member # 39439
Default  Posted: 6:45 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix1)))))
Praying for you and your family.


And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

Posts: 1442 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
Kodi
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Default  Posted: 6:46 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix1)))

Posts: 1367 | Registered: Sep 2007
Violated
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Default  Posted: 6:51 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix1))))

Sending prayers and positive thoughts.


Divorced 10/2013

Posts: 570 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: West Coast
dazdandconfuzed
11692
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Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))Miracle mojo, coming to WA.


Me - BW
Him - WH

Posts: 6621 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: Massachusetts
gahurts
♂ 33699
Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry Phoenix1. I hope you hear from them soon. Paying that they are safe.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3525 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
little turtle
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Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((phoenix)))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4247 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers, mojo, everything I have for your family.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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