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heartbroken_kk (original poster member #22722) posted at 6:41 AM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
STBXHWPANPDFTG and OW#6 have shacked up together. Today they were at the trailhead of a park we all go to, drinking beers in the lot with their friends after a bike ride as I pulled in with my dog.
OW#6 gave me the most ugly stink-eye as I drove past to park my car. I swear she couldn't have contorted her face into a more ugly shape if she tried. All I could do was say out my open window "Now there's a case of the evil eye, huh."
STBXWHPANPDFTG looked at his feet. The others with them looked away from me, not sure what to do with it all. WTF. I've never said a word to her since she started fucking him, she's just the last in a long line of tramps and means nothing to me. I have been very consistent in never speaking to her. I have had nothing to say, until today.
One of the group is a joint friend who has stayed in touch with me through the S/D process. She left the group and came over to say "Hi" when I parked. My dog jumped out, greeted her, then went over and greeted STBXWHPANPDFTG. He petted her. She went off looking for a stick.
I chatted a bit with my friend. I said "That was really uncalled for. I've never said boo to her." She shrugged and said, yeah, this drama is so lame. I told her I was doing fine and "whatever". I'm over it. I'm moving on with MY life.
I got ready to head in at the trailhead and called my dog. She looked at me for a moment, then came. Didn't look back. Good dog.
I am healing. The look on OW#6's face has been playing in my mind. It really wasn't attractive. He can have her.
[This message edited by heartbroken_kk at 12:42 AM, March 24th (Monday)]
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
momentintime ( member #16394) posted at 6:53 AM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
Just wanted you to know you were heard.
Won't be long before he starts getting that look. Meanwhile you are moving forward to a better life. Seems she is still competing with you. She may have him, but she looses in the long run. You are well out of the cray-cray.
BS-me FWS - him
D-day 8/04
R'd
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stronger08 ( member #16953) posted at 7:14 AM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
FUCK HER !!!!!! Nuff said.........
You cant eat soup with chopsticks.
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 7:28 AM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
Hopefully the wind changes and her face gets stuck in that ugly shape 
FTWhore.
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 1:52 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
Are you sure that just isn't what her face is like now? Just sayin'.
Living with a lying, cheating scumbag whore and being one yourself does terrible things to your looks.
I'm pleased to report it works in reverse when you hefty bag the aforementioned lyingcheatingscumbagwhore. 
Ugly is as ugly does.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 1:54 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
Next time, don't even engage with that bitch.
She's a whore no matter what, and your comment made her think that she's in your head.
Your dog is awesome.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:54 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
I was hoping maybe your dog went over and peed on her leg.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 3:07 PM on Monday, March 24th, 2014
I was hoping maybe your dog went over and peed on her leg.
Perfect!
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
heartbroken_kk (original poster member #22722) posted at 5:41 PM on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
I've had a busy few days since then and the more I reflect on the moment the more it loses its relevance to my life. Really whore, he lives with you now. I win.
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 6:27 PM on Thursday, March 27th, 2014
I've had a busy few days since then and the more I reflect on the moment the more it loses its relevance to my life
. Yep, that's winning!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 7:04 PM on Thursday, March 27th, 2014
That face is just a reflection of what's in her soul. Ugly. Distorted. Broken.
YOU ARE AWESOME....AND MY HERO!!!! GO YOU!
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
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