SurvivingInfidelity.com Forum Archives

If you had one hour left on this earth, What would you say to your FWS/BS?

Edit to add BS so fws may respond!

[This message edited by DTERMINED2SURVIV at 5:00 PM, March 24th (Monday)]

If I had one hour left I'm not sure what I would say, but I can tell you the affair would be the last thing I wanted to talk about.

If I had one hour left, my XWH would be the last person on a long list of people to whom I would want to speak.

I wouldn't waste a single second on her.

I would not waste a single second of my life on him at all. He doesn't deserve my thoughts or any part of me. Not one thought, not one word, not even a glance.

Get your ass in the car and meet me at the shore, so we can watch the earth end together.

My son would get every second of my last hour.

AJ's MOM

Thank you for my step-daughter. Being part of her life was/is a blessing. Can't regret that.

"you are a good man. I'm so sorry."

I would not spend one moment of my last hour on XWH. I already wasted enough of my life on him.

Last hour......... Would beat the life out of skank whore for 20 minutes then spend the rest with my 3 kids!!!!! Oh that felt good !!! Thanks for the thread!!!

Not a thing. There are many things I'd want to fit into that hour, and speaking with him does not even come close to making the list.

Seriously, if I had a month, I'm not sure he'd make the cut.

If it were just my hour and the Earth would be intact after I was gone?

I'd be leaving exactly 59 minutes of details on how to take care of DD and how I hope she would be raised. 1 minute for ILY's and a promise to go find his mom on the other side.

If it's the end of the world, I think Crazz would be on board to make it the best damned hour of DD's life.

[This message edited by Jrazz at 5:28 PM, March 24th (Monday)]

Your not an evil man your just a flawed man who made mistakes you could not undo. Forgive yourself because I have and so has God, I really did survive, I am really ok now, so you really need to move on. Thank you for my sons they are the very best thing in my life. I would kiss him on the cheek then I would walk away hand in hand with my new husband and my awesome sons and leave this earth with their faces as the last earthly image I beheld.

Seriously, if I had a month, I'm not sure he'd make the cut

Thats funny

I'm going out for an hour

Nothing. :D

There is no way on earth I'd spend my last hour on earth having anything to do with him. Especially not wasting any time thinking & or talking to him.

I'd rather think about the people in my life that I actually love, and about all the joy Obe been so fortunate to experience. From roller skating & lemonade stands as a kid, to besties & adventures, to kissing my own kids goodnight, and snuggling up with my teens watching movies.

I'd probably reminisce over a colonoscopy before I spent any time reminiscing over my ex.

He's just not on my bucket list.

>^..^<

My kids,my granddaughter, my.parents, and my sisters would get my time...him I would prob ask him to get his shit straight for his own good and for his children's..that would take about 2 min and that's all he would get.

I am afraid that part of that last hour I'd still be asking "Why?" I've done every conceivable work on that question and I will go to my grave and still never understand in my heart "why". Why did you so lightly, cheerfully and utterly betray me?

My kids and I would spend every single minute of it together talking about how they need to take care of each other, and about how they are both blessings in my life and how much I love them. WH umm..nope, no time for that.