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Newest Member: Thranduilion (61515)

User Topic: i can't take it anymore
Member # 42768
Default  Posted: 2:00 AM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just wanted so badly for WS to shiw me enought respect to finally tell me the WHOLE truth. He just keeps playing this game of being on the fence. Trying to sweet talk me and tell me he's sorry and he loves me. I asked him about some of the OWs and he swore he hasn't talked to them in yrs. So I looked on their facebook and saw that he had just added them all as friemds this past weekend (right after i found out about a recent EA and said I was done). Someone who isn't playing games and really wants to R wouldn't do that....? Of course when I confronted him about how he could say he doesnt want a divorce and then lie to me a minute later, he told me I misunderstood what he was actually saying and he does want a divorce. Are these typical WS headgames? I mean, if he doesn't want to be with me why can't he just leave me alone?????

Posts: 43 | Registered: Mar 2014
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Member # 24924
Default  Posted: 6:42 AM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know, but I would leave HIM alone! Try moving forward without him. He isn't serious about a relationship with you, and you can do so much better!

I'm sorry you're going through this. Hugs to you.

[This message edited by stillhere09 at 6:43 AM, March 25th (Tuesday)]

Me-50 BW

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M

Posts: 3204 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Ohio
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Default  Posted: 6:47 AM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He will continue to play ping-pong with your life as long as YOU allow it. Put an end to it.

Implement the 180.
Meet with an attorney.

Show him you will no longer tolerate the disrespect. His sweet talk means nothing, his actions don't match his words.


Posts: 9788 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
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