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alupielady posted 3/26/2014 16:57 PM

I just found out that my husband has been having an online emotional and sexual affair with a woman literally half my age. It went on for at least 6 months. In addition to her he had numerous sexual hookups on Skype and kik with women that he only talked to for a few days. I also found out that he had joined a few different dating sites and that he was looking around on craigslist. He was telling these women that he was either single or divorced. The one he had the affair with he actually had Skype sex with her on my birthday and on our anniversary. She felt sorry for him that he was missing me on those days. He says it's over and he wants only me and to work on our marriage. I am so hurt. He only stopped because I caught him and he admits that. I am so confused...

Hurtgmw posted 3/26/2014 17:05 PM

So sorry to hear your news and I feel your pain.
I recently found out my partner had been on a swinging site, not only having on Line sex, phone sex but also met up with people too. I don't know and will never know the full extent of his lies and deception.
Wish there was something I could say to make this easier for you. It's been 4 weeks since I found out & it still hurts like crazy.
We are still together, it's tough, a roller coaster ride.

You take care xxx

alupielady posted 3/26/2014 17:13 PM

I want to work out out, we have been together for a long time. It's just so hard knowing that he told this other woman that he loves her and that she is his best friend. He should have been talking to me. I had noticed that he never talked to me any more but I had been sick and so I guess he was stressed out...I don't know.