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Topic: Huh. Well look at that...
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jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 |  Posted: 8:54 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 |     |
A few years ago, I ended R with wxbf. He wasn't giving me what I needed to hear. That night seems so long ago. I remember the gut wrenching pain I was in that night, the loving support of members here, the absurdity when he offered to show up at my place naked "if it would make me feel better".  The chorus of members saying, "wth" and "what a douche", now makes me laugh. Love SI support!
For a longtime, I wasn't ready to date. It was more important for me to focus on my healing. When guys would ask me out, I would get an anxiety attack and be nauseous. Now? The thought of dating doesn't give me an anxiety attack and I don't feel like I am going to throw up. I'm ready to put myself out there again. Nice and slow. No rushing into anything. Just believing in fate. If I'm meant to be with someone, it will happen when the time is right. 
Happy Thursday!
Posts: 38263 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
little turtle
♀ 15584
Member # 15584 | | Posted: 9:01 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
This is great!!
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Posts: 4281 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 9:11 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28265 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
Faithful w/Love
♀ 33128
Member # 33128 | | Posted: 9:17 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
WOOOHOOO.. You GO Jo.
BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
Posts: 2890 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 | | Posted: 9:17 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 53970 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092 | | Posted: 10:52 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
What a great attitude! This gives me so much hope.
Good luck out there! 
Sit. Feast on your life.
Posts: 4280 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC |
BAB61
♀ 41181
Member # 41181 | | Posted: 11:05 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
Yay!
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE |
Snapdragon
♀ 4286
Member # 4286 | | Posted: 11:26 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.
"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink
Posts: 3106 | Registered: May 2004 | From: Midwest |
itainteasy
♀ 31094
Member # 31094 | | Posted: 11:29 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
Posts: 3437 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 11:31 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
Love it.
(((Jo)))
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20798 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882 | | Posted: 11:50 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC
Divorced 1/17/2013
"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."
Posts: 2641 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 12:33 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
Not anxiously vomiting is a nice attribute in a date.
Omg. You made me laugh & snort! Yep that's attractive. 
Posts: 38263 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341 | | Posted: 12:51 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
I love the heading for this. Almost as if feeling ready to date was something that you came across while cleaning up your desk. "Well look at that, didn't even realize I had misplaced that ready to date thing. Huh, guess I might as well dust it off and see if it still works..."
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced
Posts: 3269 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa |
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 2:17 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
Spring is in the air 
May your 2015 be more FUCK YEAH! than fuck this
Posts: 20997 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY |
tryingagain74
♀ 33698
Member # 33698 | | Posted: 2:32 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
Yay, jo!
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3725 | Registered: Oct 2011 |
Threnody
♀ 1558
Member # 1558 | | Posted: 4:04 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
Does this mean *I* can show up at your house naked now? I've been holding off until you were ready.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 14040 | Registered: Jun 2003 | From: Middle-of-Diddly, TX |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 4:14 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
LMAO!!!!! @Threnody
Posts: 38263 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622 | | Posted: 4:42 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
ditto, LMAO @ Thren.
I do love this post.
Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Posts: 6050 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place |
risingfromashes
♀ 3903
Member # 3903 | | Posted: 5:02 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.
Posts: 1793 | Registered: Mar 2004 |
phmh
♀ 34146
Member # 34146 | | Posted: 6:04 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014 | |
This kind of post just makes my day. So glad your healing is progressing so nicely :)
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
Posts: 3688 | Registered: Dec 2011 |
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