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Topic: I gotta say...today was a good day
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MadeOfScars
♂ 42231
Member # 42231 |  Posted: 6:05 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014 |     |
Yes, the Ice Cube song has been playing in my head all day too.
I don't know why, but I just woke up feeling good, and I decided I wouldn't second guess it. It was a good day at work. I got my new corporate card earlier this week, so I got to take a couple of my top performers out to a really good extended lunch. Got all my work done early and, for once on a Friday, there were no last second "hey, that thing I didn't mention all week is super important and needs to be done today" calls or emails.
I get to see a good friend this evening. Him and his wife have a 6 month old daughter that I haven't had enough time to spoil properly, and apparently "she misses her uncle SoulHurts." Got a few toys for her of course. The louder, the better.
My friend seems a little too excited for me to drop by. I hope this isn't a "set up," but even if it is, so be it. I don't think the STBXWW herself can ruin my mood today. I know tomorrow could be a whole 'nother story, so yeah, I'm just gonna ride this high out. For everyone on a low today, I promise it will get better.
Today I didn't even have to use my A.K.
I got to say it was a good day 
As life gets longer, awful feels softer and it feels pretty soft to me. If it takes shit to make bliss then I feel pretty blissfully. If life's not beautiful without the pain, then I'd rather never see beauty again.
-Modest Mouse
Posts: 2655 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas |
4everfaithful83
♀ 41761
Member # 41761 |  Posted: 6:15 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm happy for you soulhurts! Congrats! My brother and his wife just had a baby 5 months ago, and there's literally nothing better than spoiling the crap out of her! It's great therapy just to get to spend time with her! I hope your good days continue!!!
Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...
ME: 33
WBF: 30
Together 9 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...
Posts: 816 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania |
annb
♀ 22386
Member # 22386 | | Posted: 6:26 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014 | |
You will begin to have more and more good days!
So glad you are feeling a sense of normalcy today! 
Posts: 9173 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast |
JaneDeaux
♀ 42630
Member # 42630 | | Posted: 7:06 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014 | |
Hooray!
"Saw things clearer once you were in my rear view mirror." Pearl Jam's Rearviewmirror
Posts: 210 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Southeast USA |
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001 | | Posted: 8:04 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014 | |
I'm glad you're having an awesome day. Have fun visiting with your friends.
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
Posts: 6116 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell! |
Ivyivy
♀ 42110
Member # 42110 | | Posted: 9:56 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014 | |
Good for you. Thanks for sharing your good mood with us. I hope that we will all have more of these types of days than the other kind.
Me -BW
Him - WH
LTA
Dday 7/11/2013
DS - 12 and DD - 16
Posts: 334 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast |
h0peless
♂ 36697
Member # 36697 | | Posted: 10:02 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014 | |
No barking from the dogs?
Posts: 2739 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona |
LeftOutintheCold
♀ 42856
Member # 42856 | | Posted: 10:34 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014 | |
It's great to hear you've had a good day!! Sometimes your outlook totally affects your entire day. I'm glad you were able to keep the mood from the moment you woke up!!
Me - 43
WH - 41
Dday - 3/6/14
Married 5yrs, together 11yrs
Status - Divorce from the ass is in progress!
You can see more of my story on my blog here: http://thatcraftylunchlady.com/?p=833
"Never give up hope and let time heal you"
Posts: 340 | Registered: Mar 2014 |
gypsybird87
♀ 39193
Member # 39193 | | Posted: 10:35 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014 | |
Yay for good days!
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
Posts: 1854 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon |
MadeOfScars
♂ 42231
Member # 42231 | | Posted: 11:07 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014 | |
No barking from the dogs?
no smog
And momma cooked a breakfast with no hog
Thanks everyone. I promise there are good days, and you should enjoy the hell out of them.
Seeing my friends and their daughter was pretty awesome. That little girl adores me, and I her! The only low point of the evening was his wife almost breaking down. This woman was my STBXWW's maid of honor, and she hers. They were very, very close. My STBXWW has cut her out of her life too. The damage my STBXWW left in her wake effects far more than me.
Anyway, I gotta say, all-in-all, today was a good day!
As life gets longer, awful feels softer and it feels pretty soft to me. If it takes shit to make bliss then I feel pretty blissfully. If life's not beautiful without the pain, then I'd rather never see beauty again.
-Modest Mouse
Posts: 2655 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas |
beautytoashes5
♀ 41900
Member # 41900 | | Posted: 11:38 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014 | |
Drove to the pad and hit the showers
Didn't even get no static from the cowards
Cause just yesterday them fools tried to blast me....
^^^^^^^
Good song SoulHurts...
Posts: 112 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Southern California |
MadeOfScars
♂ 42231
Member # 42231 | | Posted: 1:17 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014 | |
\m/
As life gets longer, awful feels softer and it feels pretty soft to me. If it takes shit to make bliss then I feel pretty blissfully. If life's not beautiful without the pain, then I'd rather never see beauty again.
-Modest Mouse
Posts: 2655 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas |
Getting to Happy
♀ 35200
Member # 35200 | | Posted: 9:54 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014 | |
Your post made me smile SoulHurts.
Onward and upward my friend
I love that song!
WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown
Posts: 1254 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land |
norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092 | | Posted: 3:15 PM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014 | |
Sit. Feast on your life.
Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC |
HurtsButImOK
♀ 38865
Member # 38865 | | Posted: 3:22 PM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014 | |
Keep on keeping on SoulHurts.
You got this.
Glad to hear you had a good day
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
Posts: 759 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia |
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