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MadeOfScars (original poster member #42231) posted at 12:05 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
Yes, the Ice Cube song has been playing in my head all day too.
I don't know why, but I just woke up feeling good, and I decided I wouldn't second guess it. It was a good day at work. I got my new corporate card earlier this week, so I got to take a couple of my top performers out to a really good extended lunch. Got all my work done early and, for once on a Friday, there were no last second "hey, that thing I didn't mention all week is super important and needs to be done today" calls or emails.
I get to see a good friend this evening. Him and his wife have a 6 month old daughter that I haven't had enough time to spoil properly, and apparently "she misses her uncle SoulHurts." Got a few toys for her of course. The louder, the better.
My friend seems a little too excited for me to drop by. I hope this isn't a "set up," but even if it is, so be it. I don't think the STBXWW herself can ruin my mood today. I know tomorrow could be a whole 'nother story, so yeah, I'm just gonna ride this high out. For everyone on a low today, I promise it will get better.
Today I didn't even have to use my A.K.
I got to say it was a good day 
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t." - Steve Maraboli
4everfaithful83 ( member #41761) posted at 12:15 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
I'm happy for you soulhurts! Congrats! My brother and his wife just had a baby 5 months ago, and there's literally nothing better than spoiling the crap out of her! It's great therapy just to get to spend time with her! I hope your good days continue!!!
Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...
ME: 36
1 doggie
DDay: June 24th, 2013
DDay 2 : August 22nd,2017
Left him August 26th, 2017
annb ( member #22386) posted at 12:26 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
You will begin to have more and more good days!
So glad you are feeling a sense of normalcy today! 
JaneDeaux ( member #42630) posted at 1:06 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 2:04 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
I'm glad you're having an awesome day. Have fun visiting with your friends.
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
Ivyivy ( member #42110) posted at 3:56 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
Good for you. Thanks for sharing your good mood with us. I hope that we will all have more of these types of days than the other kind.
Me -BW
Him - WH
LTA
Dday 7/11/2013
DS - 12 and DD - 16
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 4:02 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
No barking from the dogs?
LeftOutintheCold ( member #42856) posted at 4:34 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
It's great to hear you've had a good day!! Sometimes your outlook totally affects your entire day. I'm glad you were able to keep the mood from the moment you woke up!!
Me - 43
WH - 41
Dday - 3/6/14
Married 5yrs, together 11yrs
Status - Divorce from the ass is in progress!
You can see more of my story on my blog here: http://thatcraftylunchlady.com/?p=833
"Never give up hope and let time heal you"
gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 4:35 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
Yay for good days!
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
MadeOfScars (original poster member #42231) posted at 5:07 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
No barking from the dogs?
no smog
And momma cooked a breakfast with no hog
Thanks everyone. I promise there are good days, and you should enjoy the hell out of them.
Seeing my friends and their daughter was pretty awesome. That little girl adores me, and I her! The only low point of the evening was his wife almost breaking down. This woman was my STBXWW's maid of honor, and she hers. They were very, very close. My STBXWW has cut her out of her life too. The damage my STBXWW left in her wake effects far more than me.
Anyway, I gotta say, all-in-all, today was a good day!
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t." - Steve Maraboli
beautytoashes5 ( member #41900) posted at 5:38 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
Drove to the pad and hit the showers
Didn't even get no static from the cowards
Cause just yesterday them fools tried to blast me....
^^^^^^^
Good song SoulHurts...
MadeOfScars (original poster member #42231) posted at 7:17 AM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t." - Steve Maraboli
Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 3:54 PM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
Your post made me smile SoulHurts.
Onward and upward my friend
I love that song!
WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 9:15 PM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 9:22 PM on Saturday, March 29th, 2014
Keep on keeping on SoulHurts.
You got this.
Glad to hear you had a good day
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
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