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User Topic: What didn't kill me made me stronger!
momofthree2007
♀ 14766
Member # 14766
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Haven't posted on here in almost 3 years.

Long story short, in March 2007, 2 months before my my 2 year anniversary to my XWH, and 5 months into my second pregnancy, I found out he cheated on me. That was followed by 5 years of MC/IC on and off and emotional abuse. My wake up call came when I ended doing the very thing I said I'd never do. I had an EA which turned physical. From that point on, I realized my marriage was beyond repair and that 2 wrongs don't make a right. I filed for divorce in June, 2012 and it was finalized on August 23rd that same year. I moved back to my hometown from then on, determined to get myself on my feet and to provide a better life for my children on my own.

In the nearly 2 years I've been single I managed to work full time and go to school full time. I recently finished school and have started a career as massage therapist. During my separation from my XWH I incurred a lot of debt and my new goal now is to get out.

While it's been lonely at times, I've learned that while I may want a man in my life, I don't need one. If I'm meant to have true love, it'll come when it's meant to.

[This message edited by momofthree2007 at 10:10 PM, March 28th (Friday)]


H - XWH (32) RSA
D-Day 1, OW1: 3/20/07
D-Day 2. OW2: 6/24/07
Divorced, 08/23/2012
Married 7 years, together 9
One day fling each; online As turned physical physical

Posts: 491 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Florida
better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome back to SI momofthree2007.

I love your new beginning story. A new career is a wonderful thing! And a new career where you get to help improve people's lives? Awesome!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3236 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
momofthree2007
♀ 14766
Member # 14766
Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks better4me, I'm not quite yet where I want to be but I'm getting there. The way my XWH has been acting since the divorce has made me feel better about my decision.

[This message edited by momofthree2007 at 8:27 PM, March 29th (Saturday)]


H - XWH (32) RSA
D-Day 1, OW1: 3/20/07
D-Day 2. OW2: 6/24/07
Divorced, 08/23/2012
Married 7 years, together 9
One day fling each; online As turned physical physical

Posts: 491 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Florida
Topic Posts: 3

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