Haven't posted on here in almost 3 years.
Long story short, in March 2007, 2 months before my my 2 year anniversary to my XWH, and 5 months into my second pregnancy, I found out he cheated on me. That was followed by 5 years of MC/IC on and off and emotional abuse. My wake up call came when I ended doing the very thing I said I'd never do. I had an EA which turned physical. From that point on, I realized my marriage was beyond repair and that 2 wrongs don't make a right. I filed for divorce in June, 2012 and it was finalized on August 23rd that same year. I moved back to my hometown from then on, determined to get myself on my feet and to provide a better life for my children on my own.
In the nearly 2 years I've been single I managed to work full time and go to school full time. I recently finished school and have started a career as massage therapist. During my separation from my XWH I incurred a lot of debt and my new goal now is to get out.
While it's been lonely at times, I've learned that while I may want a man in my life, I don't need one. If I'm meant to have true love, it'll come when it's meant to.