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User Topic: We'll figure it out..
better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When discussing what we were "doing" regarding dating each other at this stage in our lives, these were the words in a text from my new beau: "We'll figure it out". He has no idea how comforting and reassuring and soul touching those words are for me. I don't think I realized how reassuring and comforting they were until the tears came into my eyes when reading them last night.


Better4me is just going to go with the flow and "be" with this. With everything. Ahhhhhhh


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3267 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
cmego
♀ 30346
Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can I give this a hundred "likes"???

Makes me happy.


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4284 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
norabird
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Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a lovely approach.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
gypsybird87
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Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, March 30th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 1048 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
inconnu
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Member # 24518
Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, March 30th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12187 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
momofthree2007
♀ 14766
Member # 14766
Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, March 30th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's amazing what does little words can do. When I came to the realization that my marriage was pretty much over after my XWH's DDays, I met an amazing man who I opened up to about my situation. I told him how I wanted a divorce but didn't know how my kids could handle it. He told me "you'll figure it out and when your kids are older, they'll understand." Those little words, "you'll figure out" gave me the motivation to go through with the divorce. I fell in love with him. Even though we're not together, we're still friends and he has a special place in my heart. I don't know what the future may bring for us, but thanks to those little words, I had the courage to leave my drama filled emotionally abusive marriage and try to raise my kids on my own.


H - XWH (32) RSA
D-Day 1, OW1: 3/20/07
D-Day 2. OW2: 6/24/07
Divorced, 08/23/2012
Married 7 years, together 9
One day fling each; online As turned physical physical

Posts: 491 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Florida
Topic Posts: 6

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