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Newest Member: Morrigan1310 (61472)

User Topic: We'll figure it out..
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Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When discussing what we were "doing" regarding dating each other at this stage in our lives, these were the words in a text from my new beau: "We'll figure it out". He has no idea how comforting and reassuring and soul touching those words are for me. I don't think I realized how reassuring and comforting they were until the tears came into my eyes when reading them last night.

Better4me is just going to go with the flow and "be" with this. With everything. Ahhhhhhh

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:54

Posts: 4130 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can I give this a hundred "likes"???

Makes me happy.

me...BS, 46 years old.

Posts: 4738 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a lovely approach.

Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4324 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
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Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, March 30th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords

Posts: 1857 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, March 30th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown

Posts: 13029 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartof, Texas
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, March 30th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's amazing what does little words can do. When I came to the realization that my marriage was pretty much over after my XWH's DDays, I met an amazing man who I opened up to about my situation. I told him how I wanted a divorce but didn't know how my kids could handle it. He told me "you'll figure it out and when your kids are older, they'll understand." Those little words, "you'll figure out" gave me the motivation to go through with the divorce. I fell in love with him. Even though we're not together, we're still friends and he has a special place in my heart. I don't know what the future may bring for us, but thanks to those little words, I had the courage to leave my drama filled emotionally abusive marriage and try to raise my kids on my own.

D-Day 1, OW1: 3/20/07
D-Day 2. OW2: 6/24/07
Divorced, 08/23/2012
Married 7 years, together 9
One day fling each; online As turned physical

Posts: 491 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Florida
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