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hangingonin posted 3/31/2014 04:33 AM

I never thought that I would be posting in this section. It's taken almost 4 years to get here. See my profile for my journey.
The short version is that my WH has at long last stopped seeing the other woman. It was a LTA and escorts. He is giving up the lease on his rented flat, we are selling the house and looking for a fresh start in a new house.
I do think that getting back together was the right thing to do. It is hard watching my WH miss the woman from the LTA. Does anyone know how long it takes to get over the other woman?
We are no longer arguing about everything, which is positive and can talk about the past without it getting into an argument, although some subjects I still feel hurt about and so will avoid these - until I can cope with them.
In many ways WH coming back is an anti climax. I was expecting it to be more romantic. But I guess for him it's difficult too.
Any thoughts from anyone who has been down this road is much appreciated.

Sadjacey posted 3/31/2014 06:02 AM

I admire y our strength in hanging in there for such a long time in such a difficult journey. I hope you are able to work it out together,

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