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User Topic: Still Hurting After All These Years.....
Sennah
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Member # 8630
Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hate Facebook. The pictures of them are gut-wrenching. I hate seeing all the fancy places they visit. I have GOT to stop doing this. I feel like I'm never going to get better. Back to the shrink I guess


Me: BS 44
Him: Loser 47
Twin Sons: 17
Married 12 years
Together for 19 years (high school sweethearts)
"Wish I didn't know now what I didn't know then." -Bob Seger


Posts: 192 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: Michigan
WeepingBuddhist
♀ 39139
Member # 39139
Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Block.

Block.

Block.

(((Sennah)))


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 673 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 11:00 AM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What Weepingbuddhist said. I blocked my ex on Facebook last week. Just staring at the button. I had already unfriended him but I was going back and couldn't stop myself from gleaning all the details I could, making conjectures that were hurtful about what he's doing, torturing myself.

So I did it, I pressed the button (had to tell two friends I was hesitating and get them to encourage me first).

Taking away the temptation will help. NC = No new hurts. And yes, stalking is a kind of contact.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Angeles85
♀ 42107
Member # 42107
Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry Sennah, I know exactly what you feel. I unfriended him, too but I used to have his friends/family on FB, too. I unfriended them all last week. I read here in a different post:
"He is not hurting you anymore, you are" so please stop doing that to yourself.
(((Sennah)))

Posts: 142 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Los Angeles
Sennah
8630
Member # 8630
Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone. Hopefully, I'm just having a bad day.


Me: BS 44
Him: Loser 47
Twin Sons: 17
Married 12 years
Together for 19 years (high school sweethearts)
"Wish I didn't know now what I didn't know then." -Bob Seger


Posts: 192 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: Michigan
norabird
♀ 42092
Member # 42092
Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Sennah))))

We all have bad days like that. The trick is to engineer our lives so that it's harder to give in to them and make them worse by pain shopping.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree that blocking is your best move. Remove that temptation to look....


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2624 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Topic Posts: 7

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