An “I forgive you for everything” so we can move on, which is exactly the same attitude I’d have to have if I left as well.
Want me to hold the rug up while you sweep?
Come on Rach, you know better.
There is no card you can play that will make everything ok.
You need to climb those mountains.You don't need to climb them all at once.
You tackle them one at a time, in 1-2 mile trips at a time.
Some days you slide back and lose your ground. You regroup and start again.
You have been sounding positive lately Rachel, is it time to regroup or are your feelings true and not just a swing for right now?
Do you believe your husband has no compassion for your attack or do you think he hasn't yet learned how to deal with it?
He didn't confess to the A's, but that will never change. Is this a deal-breaker?
If you decide you need something different than what he can offer you your life will be different, but it will be what you want and you can make it your own, and you can make it happy.
One struggle at a time. Breathe and try to make decisions based on what makes you happy inside. We live with much more life than we do holidays...kwim?
[This message edited by karmahappens at 1:13 PM, March 31st (Monday)]