WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
So far, from what I have reviewed it looks solid. I have just a few clarification on some details and will go over them with my L.
The ball then goes back to her L's court, and I hope he doesn't drag his feet again to get the decree submitted and a hearing scheduled. So far they have delayed, delayed, delayed...
"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown
I can tell STBXW didn't read through it thoroughly. For example, my oldest son's Bday is on Father's day. On both boys' birthdays, I get them for 2 hours. She does as well. But, on Father's day, I get the oldest for 24 hours. So I get to celebrate two events with my oldest, his Bday and Fathers day, every year if I wanted to be an asshole and not let her celebrate his Bday too on Father's day and she couldn't do anything about it. How did she overlook that? Because it's all about HER needs and no one else's.
Don't worry. I'm not an asshole. But I'll point it out to her AFTER the decree is signed and submitted just to underline how selfish she appears in the decree.