Ok, a little background. DD6 plays T-ball and STBXWH coaches. OW's DD5 plays on the same team (plus she is a neighbor).....last fall when the affair started would hug on and kiss her kids when I wasn't there.
Tball started for the Spring season and of course OW her daughter on the same team-- this after STBXWH and OW announced they had feelings for each other on NYE.
I have decided to go to the Tball games to support my daughter. Today was the fourth game and it was pure torture....I do not like seeing her there cheering my daughter on....plus now she is helping in the dugout. Their relationship is still in the closet and they are keeping it a secret from others....she is going through a divorce too.
I yelled at STBXWH as I was getting in the car..."You know you can say bye to your girlfriend, I know what's up"....he of course pretended to not hear.
I keep throwing the alienation of affection lawsuit out (I live in NC)...and I know he squirms everytime I mention it.
Ugh....another thing...what is wrong with society today? Some of our mutual friends act like he did nothing wrong! OW acts like she did nothing wrong at the Tball games....guess this is a microcosm of society in general....no consequences for inappropriate behavior and actions!
Married 15 years
You can't rationalize irrational behavior.