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Topic: My darling daughter
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nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306 |  Posted: 10:57 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014 |     |
My daughter attempted suicide again today. She is hospitalized at the moment and medically clear. She was planning to jump from a bridge. The police picked her up on the off ramp going up to the bridge.
Please pray or whatever it is you do, for her and for our family.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
Posts: 5580 | Registered: Aug 2013 |
rainagain
♀ 14917
Member # 14917 | | Posted: 10:59 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014 | |
I am and my heart is with you Nekorb.
Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 50
DS24, DD21, DS19
Posts: 1300 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts |
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148 | | Posted: 11:03 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014 | |
I am holding all of you in my prayers.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Posts: 4473 | Registered: Jan 2010 |
ArkLaMiss
♀ 14918
Member # 14918 | | Posted: 11:06 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014 | |
Prayers that angels keep her safe! So glad she's safe!
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
Posts: 1578 | Registered: Jun 2007 |
purplejacket4
♀ 34262
Member # 34262 | | Posted: 11:19 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014 | |
She's in a mental health unit?
Praying that she'll do well.
Me: BS 47
Her: FWS 50 (both family med MDs; together 20 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
Posts: 2999 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Here |
nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306 | | Posted: 11:26 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014 | |
She's in a mental health unit?
Yes. Pediatric inpatient acute psych unit. We need to ask if a long term placement might be appropriate. Ugh. I hate the thought of it.
Thank you all. [This message edited by nekorb at 11:26 PM, March 31st (Monday)]
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
Posts: 5580 | Registered: Aug 2013 |
HFSSC
♀ 33338
Member # 33338 | | Posted: 11:57 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014 | |
Oh, nekorb, I am so sorry. This makes me even angrier and sadder at the situation you are in. I am lifting you and your precious dd up in prayer.
Me, 50. (How did THAT happen??)
Him, 42 (JMSSC)
married 20 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.
Posts: 3913 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 12:01 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
(((((((((nekorb)))))))))
Posts: 12215 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 12:02 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
((((nekorb & family))))
I am so sorry. Keeping you in heart, thoughts, and prayers.
Posts: 49950 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
crazynot
♀ 24572
Member # 24572 | | Posted: 12:17 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Just a huge (((())), Nekorb, and prayers and good wishes for you and your lovely daughter xx
Me - 50
Him - 51
DDay 21 March 2009
Divorcing and delighted!
Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it.
Posts: 1463 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK |
5454real
♂ 37455
Member # 37455 | | Posted: 12:39 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
I am so sorry.
I hope DD gets the help she needs.
Strength and prayers
BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone
Posts: 5174 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest |
Violated
♀ 21239
Member # 21239 | | Posted: 1:18 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Sending prayers and strength to you and your dd(s).
Sorry, but I wish I could send a lightening bolt to your H's head. I'm so tired of selfishness.
Divorced 10/2013
Posts: 675 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: West Coast |
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024 | | Posted: 6:05 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
((((((((nekorb and DD)))))))
Prayers to you and your family.
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 54999 | Registered: Sep 2007 |
yearsofpain25
♂ 42012
Member # 42012 | | Posted: 7:47 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
(((nekorb, DD, and family)))
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
Posts: 4457 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US |
JanaGreen
♀ 29341
Member # 29341 | | Posted: 7:50 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
I am so sorry. 
Proud mom to a lovely young lady and a sweet little boy.
Posts: 8242 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Southeast US |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 7:56 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
((((((nekorb)))))) Holding you, your daughter, and your family in my thoughts, honey. I hope she finds the support and help she needs.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 40111 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
sad12008
♀ 18179
Member # 18179 | | Posted: 8:07 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
(((nekorb, DD, & the rest of the family)))
I'm so sorry and I will definitely be sending positive thoughts your way.
When you say, "medically clear"...that doesn't mean that they're already ready to release her <24 hrs after the incident? (not that it would surprise me)
Sending you strength, nekorb!
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
Posts: 4180 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together |
tushnurse
♀ 21101
Member # 21101 | | Posted: 8:10 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
(((Nekorb))))
So difficult to deal with. You should as her parent be able to demand at least a 72hour hold. It sounds like she could use an inpatient stay to get her equaled out a bit.
Praying she gets the help she needs now.
Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 16 & 18
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Posts: 12942 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis |
sunandmoon
♀ 10180
Member # 10180 | | Posted: 10:27 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
I am so very sorry. Thoughts and prayers for you and your DD.
sunandmoon
Posts: 1635 | Registered: Mar 2006 |
imagoodwitch
♀ 23375
Member # 23375 | | Posted: 10:31 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Thoughts and prayers for you both.
A head full of fears has no space for dreams.
Posts: 6508 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland |
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