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 nekorb (original poster member #40306) posted at 4:57 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

My daughter attempted suicide again today. She is hospitalized at the moment and medically clear. She was planning to jump from a bridge. The police picked her up on the off ramp going up to the bridge.

Please pray or whatever it is you do, for her and for our family.

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

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rainagain ( member #14917) posted at 4:59 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

I am and my heart is with you Nekorb.

Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:11 done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love- Marino Me: Divorced

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 5:03 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

I am holding all of you in my prayers.

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 5:06 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

Prayers that angels keep her safe! So glad she's safe!

Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 5:19 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

She's in a mental health unit?

Praying that she'll do well.

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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 nekorb (original poster member #40306) posted at 5:26 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

She's in a mental health unit?

Yes. Pediatric inpatient acute psych unit. We need to ask if a long term placement might be appropriate. Ugh. I hate the thought of it.

Thank you all.

[This message edited by nekorb at 11:26 PM, March 31st (Monday)]

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 5:57 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

Oh, nekorb, I am so sorry. This makes me even angrier and sadder at the situation you are in. I am lifting you and your precious dd up in prayer.

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 6:01 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

(((((((((nekorb)))))))))

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 6:02 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

((((nekorb & family))))

I am so sorry. Keeping you in heart, thoughts, and prayers.

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crazynot ( member #24572) posted at 6:17 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

Just a huge (((())), Nekorb, and prayers and good wishes for you and your lovely daughter xx

Me - 50
Him - 51
DDay 21 March 2009
Divorcing and delighted!

Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it.

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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 6:39 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

I am so sorry.

I hope DD gets the help she needs.

Strength and prayers

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

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Violated ( member #21239) posted at 7:18 AM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

Sending prayers and strength to you and your dd(s).

Sorry, but I wish I could send a lightening bolt to your H's head. I'm so tired of selfishness.

Divorced 10/2013

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 12:05 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

((((((((nekorb and DD)))))))

Prayers to you and your family.

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 1:47 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

(((nekorb, DD, and family)))

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 1:50 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

I am so sorry.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:56 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

((((((nekorb)))))) Holding you, your daughter, and your family in my thoughts, honey. I hope she finds the support and help she needs.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 2:07 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

(((nekorb, DD, & the rest of the family)))

I'm so sorry and I will definitely be sending positive thoughts your way.

When you say, "medically clear"...that doesn't mean that they're already ready to release her <24 hrs after the incident? (not that it would surprise me)

Sending you strength, nekorb!

You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:10 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

(((Nekorb))))

So difficult to deal with. You should as her parent be able to demand at least a 72hour hold. It sounds like she could use an inpatient stay to get her equaled out a bit.

Praying she gets the help she needs now.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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sunandmoon ( member #10180) posted at 4:27 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

I am so very sorry. Thoughts and prayers for you and your DD.

sunandmoon

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imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 4:31 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

Thoughts and prayers for you both.

Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess

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