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User Topic: I miss my wife
Prayingforhope
♂ 41801
Member # 41801
Concerned  Posted: 11:00 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm on a business trip. First one I've taken since dday and I miss my wife. Obviously I miss her all the time since we're separated (her request) and have NC, but this is different, something simpler, something deeper.

My flight was cancelled today, then delayed, then I went standby and finally over a period of 8 hours I finally got to where I was headed. And during that whole time, she never knew where I was. I wasn't allowed to send her the customary "I made it" text. Or an FYI text that my flight was cancelled due to weather, etc.

I'm alone in this journey and while my friends, my father, my brother, my priest, my therapist, all play a tremendous role helping me through this, nothing can replace a spouse.

I don't want to be a downer, since there is SO MUCH GOOD that has come out of the journey I have been on these past 5+ months. But wow, sometimes limbo and NC and the realization that I completely destroyed my wife's world all hit me over something as simple as not being able to send her a text message...

Tomorrow is a new day but right now I'm alone with my thoughts and missing my wife and friend.


WH 41
BS 40
D-Day Oct 28th, 2013
Together 18 years
Three amazing boys 12, 9 & 6
Praying for hope daily

Posts: 260 | Registered: Dec 2013
KBeguile
♂ 38348
Member # 38348
Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know what other to say here than that you have been heard, and I understand what you are saying and empathize with how you're feeling.


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
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"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

Posts: 802 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
Prayingforhope
♂ 41801
Member # 41801
Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks KBeguile, that is exactly what I needed last night. To share and know someone listened to me.


WH 41
BS 40
D-Day Oct 28th, 2013
Together 18 years
Three amazing boys 12, 9 & 6
Praying for hope daily

Posts: 260 | Registered: Dec 2013
scream
♂ 36506
Member # 36506
Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying. We are here to listen. And I am still pulling for you. I wish you had better news to share. But you made it safely and tomorrow is another day. Make the most of it you can.

Posts: 290 | Registered: Aug 2012
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