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tushnurse (original poster member #21101) posted at 4:04 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Thank you one and all for the MOJO, Prayers, and positive thoughts.
My husband received an offer today for the job he wanted!!! And it's AWESOME!!! Includes a company car, and a raise in his base salary from his prior job.
Yipee!!! YAH HOO!!! So Very Happy!!!
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 4:14 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 4:26 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
so happy for you!!
yay!!!!
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
tushnurse (original poster member #21101) posted at 4:37 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
We have had a tough, and by tough I mean financially overwhelming 5 years. Living paycheck to paycheck, and struggling to get our bills paid, and so forth. Behind on house payments etc.
Please God let this be our time to get it all back together.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:39 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
AWESOME!!! Congratulations, Mr. Tushnurse! 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 4:41 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Awesome! Congratulations! I'm so happy for you both.
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 4:42 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
((yay!)) so happy for you guys!!
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 4:44 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
So happy for you
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 5:05 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Congrats!!!
Does this mean I can uncross my legs now?
BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12
Former 80s Icon wishful thinking
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 5:07 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 5:11 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 5:11 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am tap dancing for you. I don't know how to tap dance, so it's really rather awkward.. but hey, I'm excited 
Now, do yourself a favor and celebrate before you work out your tax deductions per paycheck. It really deserves a few more days before you go "They take how much now? Oh my god".
Nice to have a paycheck to bitch about isn't it?
I hear you on the struggling!!
Dh was in school for 3.5 years with an every other semester paid co-op. We barely kept our heads above water.
Tushnurse.. you want to know what I did last Thursday?? I sat at my computer, got out all the monthly bills, and paid them IN ONE SHOT!!!!!
No paying a little bit. No deciding what could wait another few weeks. 5 minutes, bills paid. At that moment, the last 3 or 4 years became worth it. You aren't going to believe the relief!
Congrats!! I am so so pleased for you both!
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 7:02 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Congrats!!!
Even though we've never met I feel like I know you and you were even in my dream last night. We were on some big adventure kicking some medical ass! Basically saving the world. Must have been a good omen!!!
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 7:06 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Woo Hoo!
Happy Dancing Carlton style for you!
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 7:06 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Wooo hoo!!!!!!!
So happy for you both!
fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.
I edit often to fix stuff ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 7:06 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 7:07 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Woot!!!
I'm doing the Carlton dance with AJsMom!
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 8:16 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
tushnurse (original poster member #21101) posted at 8:31 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Thank you one and all.
I love the Carlton. We still do this as our Happy Dance!!!!
PJ - Sister you and I function on the same wave length, and feel that should we ever work together we would kick ass, and probably have one hell of a good time while doing it.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:51 PM on Tuesday, April 1st, 2014
Congratulations, that's great news! 
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
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