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Faithful w/Love posted 4/1/2014 11:56 AM

They are not born and they are not made.....

They create themselves through conquering adversity, trail, and error and extreme pain and suffering...

They conquer fear and find a way to speak their truth even when they are afraid.

In doing so they shine light for others who are lost and feeling alone, and in return their inner light ignites with renewed purpose.

A purpose greater than they ever could have imagined!

( This goes out to all the SI support and people who have helped me and loved me here) Thank you!

[This message edited by Faithful w/Love at 11:57 AM, April 1st (Tuesday)]

norabird posted 4/1/2014 12:30 PM

I love this!!!!

cantaccept posted 4/1/2014 18:21 PM

If I could see you in real life I would give you the biggest hug!!!

That was beautiful, the tears for the compassion in your words.

We will heal, we are strong.

woundedby2 posted 4/1/2014 18:28 PM

So beautiful. So true.

Caretaker1 posted 4/1/2014 18:30 PM

Wow! This was powerful and a great mood lifter. Thank you. I was thinking today how this is by far the biggest stress I have ever gone through, but my inner voice said, you will survive and will be stronger for it, but it comes with a heavy price.

[This message edited by Caretaker1 at 6:31 PM, April 1st (Tuesday)]

Faithful w/Love posted 4/2/2014 09:38 AM

That is a quote that I have to read all the time to know that:

There is something out of all this suffering that I am suppose to learn. To be open to the pain and the suffering even if I hate it. There is a reason that I was chosen just as all of us here, and it is to learn or become closer to the higher to the higher power and to use our wisdom help others through it.

I have learned (as much as I hate it) that this suffering and pain is only for the strong. No one can feel or understand it unless they have gone through it. This has been the most horrific 5 years of my life and still I stand, being strong with a huge heart, compassion for others, a gentle hand when needed, words of encouragement that life is not as bad as we feel, to embrace each tear, each heart pounding, each thought, and know that it is going to be okay. To know that I will survive this with grace and my head held high. I will not let another person bring me to hate them, to take my soul from me. That is what they have inside of them and I don't want to be like that.

We will fear the unknown, we will fear the loss, we will fear the unfairness of it all, but fear can only last as long as you want it to. Have FAITH in yourself each day not fear. Faith that you are someone and you are WORTH EVERYTHING!