Topic: First Post
Member # 42930
| Posted: 7:44 PM, April 2nd (Wednesday), 2014|
This is my first post and I don't quite know what to say. We are about 3 months out from D-Day and are in MC and working on reconciliation. The A lasted the better part of a year, and was emotional and physical, starting with a friendship that led to an online and then physical affair. After D-Day (confession) there was almost divorce, and significant ambivalence at first. For the last week I've found the "creating indifference" primer post to be really helpful. My wife has all my passwords, can see where I am via cell phone at all times, and knows well in advance when my work schedule might be keeping me late. Our relationship has been generally good but we have rocky moments. We have our second marriage counseling session on Friday. Thanks for being here for me.
Posts: 3 | Registered: Mar 2014
Member # 40181
| Posted: 8:33 PM, April 2nd (Wednesday), 2014|
Welcome. SI has been invaluable as my BW and I try to find a way forward. There is a lot of help to be had here if you're willing to do the work.
"May you be protected from hearts that are not humble, tongues that are not wise and eyes that have forgotten how to cry."
Posts: 261 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 41427
| Posted: 8:40 PM, April 2nd (Wednesday), 2014|
Thanks for stepping forward. That first post seems to be hard to get out. Wish you good luck and good healing.
Posts: 15 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Beaker
Member # 31349
| Posted: 8:44 PM, April 2nd (Wednesday), 2014|
Welcome to SI, EyesForward. We're here for you and your BW. It's going to be a crazy ride for a while, but you can absolutely get through this. Keep posting, and keep up the good work.
"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron
Posts: 18673 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 16024
| Posted: 5:33 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014|
Welcome, EyesForward. Keep reading and posting when you are comfortable doing so.
There is so much strong support here.
Take up your space (and do it well).
"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."
Posts: 38925 | Registered: Sep 2007
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