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Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 4:40 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Bad news - It was on my daughter and I am a little traumatized right now.
Parenthood - NOT for the faint of heart.
ETA - I should clarify that this was my first HM ever, and it was thankfully a success.
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"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 4:47 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Thank goodness you were there! (((razzies)))
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 4:49 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Oh my goodness!!! Your poor baby girl. How's she doing? Go have some wine to steady those nerves.
What was she choking on?
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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 4:51 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Yaaaay!!! Good for you!
Holy Sh......... are you ok? That was some scary stuff. 
Absolutely Fanflippingtastic job.
Parenthood - NOT for the faint of heart.
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Tearsoflove ( member #8271) posted at 4:59 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
ETA - I should clarify that this was my first HM ever, and it was thankfully a success.
Glad you put that in there. I saw the title and thought "How many unsuccessful ones did she have before she got to this one?"
"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 5:05 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
(((Jrazz and little razz)))
I'm glad that she is ok.
Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 5:05 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
I should have put it in parentheses. Won't bother the mods with that one, though.
We were having breakfast for dinner, and the bacon was a little too soft. I personally like mine crumbly bordering on burnt, but everyone else here likes it chewy so I catered to that tonight.
She crammed a whole piece in her mouth. We had our neighbor over for dinner, and DD was goofing off and inhaled it. Then started to panic and try to breathe and it blocked her airway. I don't remember leaping from my side of the table to hers and yanking her out of her seat.. but I do remember wondering whether I should be giving her adult Heimlich or flipping her over on my arm for one millisecond. Common sense yelled "She's fucking FOUR!! Get under her ribcage NOW!!"
And the rest is history. I'm so grateful for First Aid/CPR training, and the movie Groundhog Day.
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"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
cinnamongurl ( member #37879) posted at 5:26 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
That happened with my dad and a steak a few years back when I was visiting him down in the Keys. We were at a really quaint little island bar and restaurant. We'd had a few drinks and we're laughing, then all of a sudden, he wasn't. He turned blue! Scariest figgin' moment of my life! Luckily his friend, who was sitting next to him, noticed and jumped up and gave him the HM. So glad your little girl is ok! How scary for you!
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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 5:32 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
When DS22 was about a year old, he choked on a leaf. (Dont ask) I did back blows on him and got the leaf out.
The next time I had to do CPR class at work, everyone else would grab the little baby dummy and very gently pat it's back. I grabbed that sucker and beat the hell out of it.
This instructor looked at me and said, "Youve done this in real life, haven't you?"
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Him, 48 (JMSSC)
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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 5:34 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Holy shit! I'm so glad you're both OK!
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
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UnexpectedSong ( member #21761) posted at 5:49 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Wow... My heart was pounding. So glad your baby is ok.
WW(SA)
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Jrazz (original poster member #31349) posted at 5:56 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
I'm literally pacing around the house trying to release the stress.
In the moment, I was almost out of body like "This isn't happening. This isn't really happening."
When her face started to go from red to purple and I could actually hear her gasping the bacon in, I'm so fricken happy that my impulse to remain calm and do what I needed to do overrode everything else.
I am super high anxiety, but if there's a fire or someone's in danger or hurt my body goes into action mode. So grateful.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
WakingFromADream ( member #33934) posted at 8:30 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Oh man. I've had to do that for a friend, I couldn't imagine having to do it for a family member. Glad dd is alright.
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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:39 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
((((littlerazz))))) (((((Jrazz)))))
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 11:52 AM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
I'm glad she's ok. I hope you were able to calm down enough to get some rest last night. Good thing you were able to keep your cool in the heat of the moment.
I guess the Razzes make the bacon J's way from now on.
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"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 12:27 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
OMG!! That must have been so scary!
(((Hugs))) to you and Vrazz
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metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 12:28 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Oh my god!! Jrazz.. I read your first post and thought.."Oh I had to do that once! When dd got a piece of soft bacon stuck in her throat."
She was about 4.
I'm glad Vrazz is ok! Also you should know, you will not be thanked for your heroics. However, you will hear several times years from now "Remember that time you didn't cook the bacon well enough and I almost died?"
Why don't 4 year olds chew bacon!!!???
ETA) I didn't do the heimlich though.. I reached in her throat and grabbed it. Good job remembering your training!!
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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 12:29 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
I'm glad she's ok. I'm REALLY GLAD you had the training AND remembered it when you needed it!
I hope you were able to calm down and sleep.
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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 12:48 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
OMG. So glad to hear you are both OK.
I hate having to come down off of that adrenalin rush, so shaky and jittery…but it sounds like you handled it perfectly.
Poor baby…was she OK afterwards?
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Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 1:03 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Jrazz, I am so happy that you were there.
Hugs to both you and your little one...
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